“It's crucial to figure out why you cheated in the first place in order to prevent it from happening again. For example, after a few weeks of therapy post ex-breakup, it became clear to me that one of my biggest emotional triggers is when someone cancels plans on me at the last minute. So, in my curr…”— Rebecca Santiago, bustle.comTagged: Cheating, Infidelity, how to stay faithful, Couples, Relationships