“If you are stiff or are concentrating intently on the possibility of an orgasm (or lack thereof), your body will fight climax and actually begin to produce less natural lubricant, making the goal harder to achieve. So, just lie back and slip into the moment, allowing your mind and body to accept the…”— Tristan Coopersmith, sheknows.comTagged: orgasm, Relaxation, Calm Down
“You need a space that breathes sensuality to you. Experiment with different types of music, lighting, videos in the background, mirrors and so on. Creating an atmosphere that turns you on will make you feel equally inspired and at ease.”— Tristan Coopersmith, sheknows.comTagged: orgasm, Relaxation, set the mood
“Relaxation is key. Unlike men who can have sex and reach orgasm anywhere, any time, any place, under any conditions, women are wired differently. If you aren't relaxed and detached from the stresses of the day, your chances of achieving orgasm are significantly decreased. Therefore, determine what c…”— Tristan Coopersmith, sheknows.comTagged: orgasm, Relaxation, set the mood