“Touch. This doesn’t mean grope. This doesn’t mean yawn and put your arm around or sticking hands inside of pockets and keeping them warm while I’m still here. This means putting your hand on her arm when you laugh or putting your arm around her shoulders (no fake yawning allowed).”— Phoenix, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, touching, Flirting
“Figure out what makes you look cute and do it. I like to smirk and nod. My girlfriend apparently used to wink to pick up girls. Did you know that people still winked? That’s because they don’t, and that’s why it worked.”— Phoenix, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, Winking, Flirting, smiling
“Be confident. Does that sound cliche? It might, but that’s because it’s true. No one’s going to believe in your game if you don’t believe in your game (even if you’re not the gaming type). And confidence, not to be confused with cockiness or flashiness, is attractive.”— Phoenix, autostraddle.comTagged: Lesbian, Confidence, Attractive