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When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times (Shambhala Classics)

Your bucket list. Quarterly objectives. Strategic plans. Big dreams. Goals. Lots of goals and plans to achieve those goals—no matter what. Except …You're not chasing the goal itself, you're actually chasing the feeling that you hope achievi

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“All over the world, people are so caught in running that they forget to take advantage of the beauty around them. We become so accustomed to speeding ahead that we rob ourselves of joy.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Slow Down

“Once there was a young warrior. Her teacher told her that she had to do battle with fear. She didn’t want to do that. It seemed too aggressive; it was scary; it seemed unfriendly. But the teacher said she had to do it and gave her the instructions for the battle. The day arrived. The student warrior…”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Overcoming Fear

“When we protect ourselves so we won’t feel pain, that protection becomes like armor, like armor that imprisons the softness of the heart.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Armor, Protect

“When things are shaky and nothing is working, we might realize that we are on the verge of something. We might realize that this is a very vulnerable and tender place, and that tenderness can go either way. We can shut down and feel resentful or we can touch in on that throbbing quality.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: vulnerability, Two Choices

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Realtionship With Yourself, Giving Yourself A Hard Time

“The most fundamental aggression to ourselves, the most fundamental harm we can do to ourselves, is to remain ignorant by not having the courage and the respect to look at ourselves honestly and gently.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Authenticity, Courage

“Rather than letting our negativity get the better of us, we could acknowledge that right now we feel like a piece of shit and not be squeamish about taking a good look.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Self-Assessment, Personal Growth, Self-Help, Dealing With Negativity

“So the next time you encounter fear, consider yourself lucky. This is where the courage comes in. Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Overcoming Fear

“Life is a good teacher and a good friend. Things are always in transition, if we could only realize it.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Nothing Lasts Forever

“The spiritual journey involves going beyond hope and fear, stepping into unknown territory, continually moving forward. The most important aspect of being on the spiritual path may be to just keep moving.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Religion, Spirituality, Keep Moving

“To stay with that shakiness—to stay with a broken heart, with a rumbling stomach, with the feeling of hopelessness and wanting to get revenge—that is the path of true awakening. Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic—this is the spi…”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Overcoming Pain

“When you have made good friends with yourself, your situation will be more friendly too.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Love Yourself, Motivational

“Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Socratic Method, Knowledge, Not Knowing

“Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing. We think that the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don’t really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It’s just li…”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Suffering, Meaning of Our Suffering

“Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible be found in us.”

— Pema Chodron, amazon.com

Tagged: Ending, Recovery, Loss