“Men: It’s not our job to keep reminding you. Remind each other, and stop abusing. It’s as simple as that. Until men speak out against men who abuse, this will never stop. How about y’all post ‘I ignored it and I won’t anymore’ instead?”— Heather Jo Flores, medium.comTagged: Sexual Assault, Survivor, Rape Culture, Victim Blaming, How Men Think
“Why are we still demanding that women out themselves as survivors, again and again and again, rather than demanding that men out themselves as abusers?”— Heather Jo Flores, medium.comTagged: Sexual Assault, Survivor, Rape Culture, Victim Blaming, How We Think
“I refuse to post this #metoo thing. Not because I haven’t been harassed and abused but because Y’ALL ALREADY KNOW that likely every woman you have ever met has dealt with this crap. It shouldn’t take some hashtag to remind you. It shouldn’t fall to the victims, again, to have to keep speaking out. I…”— Heather Jo Flores, medium.comTagged: Sexual Assault, Survivor, Rape Culture, Victim Blaming