“Unlike the vagina, the rectum is not a straight tube, but has a subtle curve to it. These curves are part of the reason that anal penetration should be slow and gentle, especially at first. Each person's rectum and its curves are unique, and it is best to feel your way inside the rectum slowly, foll…”— Tristan Taormino, alternet.orgTagged: Anal Sex, Vagina, rectum
“Put a vibrator on your clitoris if you’re a girl. If you’re a guy, you should have your lover stimulating your penis, your balls, or whatever feels good... Work the parts of your body that are tried and true; that you know feel good. Those areas are very often neglected.”— Susan Block, alternet.orgTagged: Anal Sex, sex toys, stimulation
“A partner who is pushy, not tuned in to your pleasure, or clumsy is probably not the right one to explore anal with, unless they devote themselves to learning more about being a good lover.”— Carol Queen, alternet.orgTagged: Anal Sex, Trust, Communication