“Use leashes, collars, and leather.”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: rough sex, Leather, Collars, Leashes
“Use degrading nicknames (ex, ‘my dirty little slut.’) (I put degrading in quotes because when done in consensual play these names feel anything but degrading.)”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: rough sex, Degrading, Nicknames
“Read erotica. A good way to see examples of a TON of different kinds of tops and how they do their thing is to seek out some erotica on the subject.”— Ali, autostraddle.comTagged: rough sex, erotica, Books