Charles: Does this Fred play rough? Elizabeth: Only with me. Charles: Jesus.
— Carlos Davis, Anthony Fingleton, Elizabeth 'Lizzie' Cronin, Phoebe Cates, imdb.com
Charles: Does this Fred play rough? Elizabeth: Only with me. Charles: Jesus.
— Carlos Davis, Anthony Fingleton, Elizabeth 'Lizzie' Cronin, Phoebe Cates, imdb.com
Abby Donovan: I can't keep doing this. I feel raped. Ray Donovan: Raped? You fucking kidding me? Abby Donovan: I talked to Dr. Finkel about it. Do you even know how rough you are? My pussy hurts. I can barely walk some days.
— Ann Biderman, David Hollander, Abby Donovan, Paula Malcomson, imdb.com
Getting busy against a wall brings out an intense gotta-have-you-now-thrill. It can be tricky though, so try lifting your leg or have him bend his knees a bit.
Pull his hair a little bit. It adds an extra excitement to your fooling around sessions and can sometimes lead you to a new sexual discovery; some people love rough sex and others just don’t. You’ll never know until you try.
Use the necktie to tie his hands to the headboard of your bed so he can look, but not touch. Great way to start a sexy strip-tease.
Get into some mutual masturbation. Side-by-side. Not much is hotter than starting a hot night off with some mutual masturbation.
Make a sex tape. Just be sure YOU are the only one in possession of it.
Have sex with the curtains open and get a little too close to the window.
Anal sex. If it hurts, use lubes. If it still hurts, try something else.
Break out the full length mirror, put it by your bed, and get busy.
Host an ‘interrogation’ – tie your partner up and ‘torture’ them with pleasures as they answer naughty questions.
Use a toy that offers a tiny electrical jolt on your partner.
Wear high heels to bed.
Some men love it when you allow them to cum on your boobs, face, and any other body part.
Pull his hair and spank his ass.
You can also have your partner tap different areas of your body—like your breasts—using the object-of-choice while they're performing oral sex. This creates a sensual mixture of light pain and sexual stimulation at the same time.
Grab a few scarves or old T-shirts and tie your partner's hands (or have them tie yours) to the bed or a chair. You want the knots to be tight enough to restrict your movements but easy to break out of if you need to, says Fuller. Next, cover the eyes so that the person being bound can't see what's…
Consider this the ultimate test of self-control: Lie completely still on the bed—as long as you're in a comfortable position—and let your partner have at you. They should be free to control your body and movements—you're basically the human version of an inflatable sex doll. As difficult as it might…
Warm wax play. This involves dripping warm wax onto a partner's bare flesh (not the genitals) and watching the sudden flicker of pain fade into lingering pleasure. Use a specialty candle designed for this, as regular candles will burn the skin.
Run an ice cube over your restrained, blind-folded partner's spanked bottom for a surprising yet soothing temperature change. Slide the cube over his or her nipples and genitals and follow the icy trail with hot exhalations and licks of your tongue.