“Aggression is declaring our own feelings in the face of an important other without retracting our truths out of fear of abandonment. Aggression is the capacity to take our voices and truths into the world, into movement, into active imagination. Abuse interferes with the daughter's healthy aggressio…”— Selma Nemer PhD, amazon.com
“A daughter of a narcissistic father unconsciously sacrifices her self, seething and stuffing the resentment. For years she may not even know she is angry, yet symptoms appear. The shell begins to crack; the veneer is thin. Her authentic wants and needs have never been experienced, so they cannot be…”— Selma Nemer, amazon.com