“Make sure a towel or two are close by. Things can get really messy.”— Marriage Bed Tips, marriagebed.tips
“Don’t forget to give your husband a great view of your breasts while giving him a handjob. Wear a sexy top, or nothing at all! He’ll really appreciate that.”— Marriage Bed Tips, marriagebed.tips
“Pull the balls down. If you pull them away from the body (gently) just before he comes, it helps him do it even faster.”— Breonna Rodriguez, vivala.com
“Be confident. You have to step up to the plate knowing you’re gonna knock it out the park!”— Breonna Rodriguez, vivala.com
“Wrap two hands around your partner's mandingo (yes, we just said mandingo) and slowly, yet rhythmically, twist both hands in opposite directions, as well as up and down. He'll feel like more than one person is touching his penosh -- which he'll think is hot.”— The Nest, thenest.com
“Try to maintain eye contact throughout -- unless you're making out. Then we'll give you permission to close your eyes, so as not to creep your partner out.”— The Nest, thenest.com
“Don’t forget his balls! Balls like to be fondled, tickled, gently scratched and massaged. They are very sensitive to touch and can add a whole new level of pleasure to a hand job.”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.com
“Your job is to have some fun with it, and keep in mind that it’s a sensitive organ that is attached to other pleasure spots nearby… For instance, his inner thighs… don‘t forget to rub and stroke them too! And his ass, which is perfect for some rough grabbing and squeezing to work up your own sexual…”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.com
“If the girl initiates the act, it shows that she wants to do it, for her own pleasure as well as his – and that is sexy!”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.com
“Don’t forget to twist your wrist as you move your hand. Simple ‘up and down’ movements aren’t going to cut it.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Seductively remove his jeans. Make a show out of unzipping them and pulling them off. Think of it as a reverse strip tease.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Before you go anywhere near his cock, make sure you get him nice and hard. French kiss him, grab his hair to deepen that kiss, and stroke his thighs–but wait to touch that sweet spot.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Don't go too fast. This makes no sense to me, because a guy will stick his dick in you and pump you like its a race to create a new world record for thrusts per second, but he won’t like it when you wank him off at the same speed.”— Kat George, thoughtcatalog.com
“There is such a thing as too tight. I mean, you don’t want to stop the blood flow to the poor little carpet snake.”— Kat George, thoughtcatalog.com
“When you’re hand to knob with a circumcised penis, spit on your hand. There’s nothing worse than trying to give a dry handjob where there are no moving parts to help you.”— Kat George, thoughtcatalog.com
“Maintaining a tight connection between you and your partner throughout can exponentially increase their satisfaction. Whether it’s making eye contact, allowing yourself to make noises, or touching other parts of his body with a free hand, anything you can do to attune yourself to his experience will…”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“You may want it to end when you’re both ready to have another kind of sex, or you may want it to end with an orgasm and ejaculation.”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“Pay attention to what’s going on for him. Is he making happy noises? Is he moving his body? You can also solicit simple feedback ("You like?" or "You want more?"), although too much talking or too many questions can get distracting.”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com