“When you first start learning how to give your man a hand job, you may feel like speeding up as he starts to orgasm and shoot his load everywhere. The funny thing is that he will prefer it if you actually slow down and release the pressure as he is reaching orgasm.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Midway through your hand job, give your hand a rest and slowly slide your fingers down toward his testicles. Now, start to slowly and softly fondle them between your fingers. You can also cup them in your hand and gently squeeze them, too.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“A very easy way to change things up when jerking him off is to alternate between using one hand and using two hands on him. When you do this, you'll be able to stimulate both his shaft and the top of his penis. You'll also find that he thoroughly enjoys it when you switch between hands while giving…”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Try sitting cross-legged between his legs, while he lies flat on his back. Or have him drape his legs over the side of the bed, while you kneel on the floor between his feet.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Use more pressure. A lot of women don’t realize just how sturdy the male penis is. They tend to treat it daintily, as if it might break off in their hands. It should come as no surprise that this makes for a pretty boring hand job! Instead, grip the penis firmly in your hand, and keep a tight hold a…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Most of the men I’ve talked to have said that too much teasing and tickling in the crotch region feels uncomfortable. Spending lots of time kissing is great, but when you’re ready to give a hand job, my recommendation is to jump right into it. Wrap your hand around the shaft without wasting any time…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Gently squeeze the base and middle of his penis in a pulsing motion, and then lightly pinch the skin on the underside of his penis.”— Molly Triffin, cosmopolitan.com
“Using your fingertips, tap up and down along the underneath side of his shaft.”— Molly Triffin, cosmopolitan.com
“Slowly and lightly move your hand up and down his joystick to rev him up.”— Molly Triffin, cosmopolitan.com
“But if you’re guy is not circumcised, it can be a little harder to to get the proper stroke going. You’re going to have to move the foreskin back and forth with the movement of your hand.”— Karen Fratti, thefrisky.com
“Using a lubricant is always a good idea — it really just feels better. You don’t want too hurt him with too much friction.”— Karen Fratti, thefrisky.com
“One thing you want to think about is position. In the shower (or the kitchen or on the couch), coming at him from behind is a good way to start. If it’s too uncomfortable because he’s bigger than you and you can’t really reach all the way around, try having him lay down and then get between his legs…”— Karen Fratti, thefrisky.com