“Get yourself close to orgasm and stop for a bit while your arousal decreases and then resume. Repeating this several times as you approach orgasm over and over without going over the edge can give you an explosive orgasm once you let go.”— Carlyle Jansen, thefrisky.com
“Lying on your stomach, you can grind your clit against a vibrator or pillow while your hands roam elsewhere. You can also strap a dildo to a chair or suction it to a wall, and thrust onto it while you use your hands to play with your clitoris. Whichever way you do it, the more erogenous zones you en…”— Carlyle Jansen, thefrisky.com
“While you’re fantasizing, think about about the way your body, especially your pelvis, hips and ass, move when you’re having sex and mimic some of those movements while you touch yourself.”— Amelia McDonell-Parry, thefrisky.com
“Use one finger to run circles around your clitoris, without touching it directly.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across the clitoris. Women usually need a fair amount of time to warm up, and require repetitive, consistent stimulation to climax.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Aim the toy's curve toward your navel when you insert it—the G-spot is a couple of inches inside the vagina, on the front wall.”— Diana Spechler, womenshealthmag.com
“If you always masturbate while lying on your back, try it on all fours, or sitting in a comfortable chair, or even standing, bent over a table or the bed. Try kneeling as if you're straddling your partner.”— Diana Spechler, womenshealthmag.com
“Pay special attention to your neck, the back of your knees, your thighs, and your perineum, which is the stretch of skin between your vagina and anal opening.”— Diana Spechler, womenshealthmag.com
“While you're in the bathroom, a showerhead works just as well (if not better) than battery-powered playthings.”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.com
“Tidy up, light some candles, and get into the mood. It's hard to feel sexy if your room's smothered in month-old laundry and yesterday's Chinese food containers. Hey, they don't call it spring-cleaning for nothing.”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.com
“Here's a little known secret: Nipplegasms exist! So get your breasts involved—you just might surprise yourself.”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.com
“Something about seeing myself come makes me crazy horny. Sometimes I ride a dildo while sitting in a chair in front of the mirror so it’s like watching myself in cowgirl position. Other times, I’ll lay down in front of a mirror.”— Anna Borges, buzzfeed.com
“I’ll get my chair, put a pillow, put a rolled underwear or towel (shaped like a penis) and then cover the entire pillow with cloth. I get naked, woman-on-top position and just start to grind until come.”— Anna Borges, buzzfeed.com
“Rabbit vibrators are a sham. Just kidding, but I’ve never had one line up perfectly with my clitoris when I was also using it for penetration. I finally just sprung for two vibrators and now I keep one on my clit for steady vibrations and use the second one on my G-spot. Life-changing.”— Anna Borges, buzzfeed.com
“Slide a finger between your lips to open things up and then get a little lube on your finger tips if more slickness would feel good. Slide your fingers back and forth from your vaginal opening to your clit. Don't go inside yet, just tease yourself a bit. Try a stroke that is one finger at a time and…”— Rachel Venning, cosmopolitan.com
“Remember sexy times from your past, check out arousing online images, or read erotica. Whatever you need to do to fuel that fire.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.com
“Make sure you have enough time to not feel rushed and have enough privacy to not be interrupted. If you only have five minutes or you've set aside a day like you need to get this figured out, odds are you'e going to be way too stressed to allow the kind of no-pressure chill vibe you should ideally h…”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.com
“For some reason, he’s lasting a long time in bed, even though it’s never taken him all that long to cum in the past. Either he’s been masturbating a lot or he’s been getting some strange on the side.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com