“Just lie on your stomach with your hand firmly between your legs, and stimulate your clitoris and pubic mound by grinding your legs together and moving your hips up and down. And don't worry if you have roommates: The pillow is right there to muffle any sound you might make.”Tagged: masturbation, stimulation, clitoris
“Straddle the arm of a stuffed chair or couch with a thick blanket or towel draped over it. Start by riding it with small hip movements, and slowly build momentum until you find a pace that works for you. If you like solid, steady pressure on your clitoris, this move will drive you wild.”Tagged: masturbation, straddling, girl on top
“Find a seated position that is comfortable and allows you access between your legs, and use your finger to "draw" a circle around your clitoris. Start slow, and depending on your speed and reaction, increase speed and pressure. If the "O" shape isn't doing it for you, try tracing the letters of the…”Tagged: masturbation, clitoris, fingers
“Circle Perk: If you love clitoral stimulation but find prolonged pressure a little too intense, try the Circle Perk to reap the benefits of all those nerve endings in your c-spot. To do this move, find a seated position that is comfortable and allows you access between your legs, and use your finger…”Tagged: how to masturbate, Sex, female masturbation, orgasms, solo sex
“Something about seeing myself come makes me crazy horny. Sometimes I ride a dildo while sitting in a chair in front of the mirror so it’s like watching myself in cowgirl position. Other times, I’ll lay down in front of a mirror.”Tagged: masturbation, Mirror, dildo
“I’ll get my chair, put a pillow, put a rolled underwear or towel (shaped like a penis) and then cover the entire pillow with cloth. I get naked, woman-on-top position and just start to grind until come.”Tagged: masturbation, grinding, towel
“Rabbit vibrators are a sham. Just kidding, but I’ve never had one line up perfectly with my clitoris when I was also using it for penetration. I finally just sprung for two vibrators and now I keep one on my clit for steady vibrations and use the second one on my G-spot. Life-changing.”Tagged: masturbation, vibrator, sex toys
“Hold onto a wall or headboard for support as you straddle his face. Then, you can let him do his thing, or you can really take control by having him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips to your liking.”Tagged: sex moves, Oral Sex, straddling
“Switch up your usual cowgirl by facing away from your guy and giving him an awesome view as you ride him. For even more control, lean forward or back to change the angle of his penis inside you.”Tagged: sex moves, sex positions, reverse cowgirl
“Store your toys wrapped in cloth or in a cloth bag (luckily, many toys come with their own dust bags, so don’t throw them out).”Tagged: vibrator, hygiene, sex toys
“Look out for any irregularities that might signal it’s time to throw out your toy.”Tagged: vibrator, sex toys, Toys
“If you want to be really safe, wash your toys before every use, too.”Tagged: vibrator, Washing, hygiene
“Showing up requires intelligence, intuition, empathy, generosity, confidence, and a willingness to be vulnerable.”Tagged: Showing Up, kindness, Being There For People, Friends, Friendship
“You hear it all the time: When you write about a personal experience, especially one that is dark and unpalatable, you should be far, far removed from that time in your life to process it in writing. You should have a lesson, a realization, a moral, a triumph. An ending. But I might want to die…”Tagged: Suicide, Suicidal Ideation, Mental Health
“Is sharing your story going to change the minds of a lawmaker intent on overturning Roe? Probably not. But will it make an impact on the overall cultural perception of abortion and why reproductive healthcare access matters? Possibly.”Tagged: Abortion, Women's Health, Reproductive Health, Reproductive Rights
“Each New Bad Thing—whether it’s a tiny personal mishap you’d typically take in stride or an awful news event like Ruth Bader Ginsburg's death and the Breonna Taylor ruling—seemingly carries with it the weight of all the bad things that preceded it. As a result, we’re all kind of getting emotionally…”Tagged: therapy, Stress, 2020, COVID-19