“If you feel like giving head to a guy, try to enjoy it. If you don’t think you’ll enjoy it, stay away from it. Don’t be the girl who brings a towel to bed and constantly spits something out while giving head. It’s incredibly putting off and really annoying too.”— Gerry Sanders, lovepanky.com
“One thing that doesn't make a good lubricant: water. Water actually just adds to the chaffing. If you are giving a hand job and need some extra lubricant, reach for the lotion, not the faucet.”— Amber Madison, yourtango.com
“The lean back. Erect penises bend forward. This means: Don't ride a penis the same way you ride a bull. Lean forward or straight up. Don't lean all the way back. Quite simply, guys’ penises don't bend that way.”— Amber Madison, yourtango.com
“Catching air. When you're on top, nothing scares a guy more than when you bounce a little too high, and there's the chance of a botched landing. Catch some air and come down wrong, and you're looking at the possibility of a broken penis.”— Amber Madison, yourtango.com
“Overly wild girls. Here's an example. Riding you like a rodeo clown, swinging her hair around so it violently smacks off your face and gets in your mouth. She wallops your chest and screams the house down. That's a bit too far, no matter how much you're enjoying yourself. This isn't porn, unfortunat…”— Ian Smith, collegetimes.com
“Kinky stuff like hot wax and handcuffs can be hot, but don't pull it out without warning.”— Malia Griggs, cosmopolitan.com
“Ignoring the REST of his body. While it may seem that the only part of a man’s body that needs pleasing is between his legs, men have other erogenous zones as well – and he wants you to pay extra attention to them.”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.com
“No adventure. Okay, so you move and talk a little bit but missionary is about as far as you’ll go. For some men, that may work just fine, but for others…that simply won’t do.”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.com
“Silence. If simply laying there motionless is bad, laying there silently is even worse. Men like to know that they’re pleasing you and their egos can’t handle you lying there without so much as even giving them a grunt or a moan or something.”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.com
“Keeping your clothes on. Don’t hide those curves — he loves them. Sex just isn’t the same without sensual skin-on-skin contact. Lose the t-shirt or the lingerie and get into the moment.”— Charli Penn, essence.com
“Getting too physical. Unless he’s okayed it, you shouldn’t be in the business of leaving love marks on his body — especially not those that could leave a scar. (Back-scratching with long nails is what women are most guilty of.)”— Charli Penn, essence.com
“Not being fresh. You don’t have to be fresh out the shower to hop in the sack with your lover, but you do need to freshen up first. This includes your breath. (No one’s a fan of garlic or onion breath.)”— Charli Penn, essence.com
“Criticism. It’s to be avoided at all costs. Nothing will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON’T like and what you don’t want taking place. On the other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know what he CAN do to please you and what will excite yo…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.com
“Not taking the lead. Don’t wait to get asked to dance…meaning you’ve got to take the lead. You don’t have to wait for your partner to ask you to have sex or make love with them. Get involved, get into bed, take the lead and get your partner into bed with you. You’ll both have a lot of fun and enjoy…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.com