“Comfy clothes. I know that you want to be in those comfortable jammies that you wear, but honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse is your comfy clothes. So, if you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and put on a sexy bra or nightie; something you ca…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.com
“Not owning your own body. What most men find as a lasting turn-on more than anything is how a woman carries herself. Her confidence. If you are always down on your body, you can do something about it by working out if you want. But one thing you can for sure do is learn to embrace the skin you’re in…”— Corey Allan, simplemarriage.net
“Unresponsiveness in the sack. Sex with a corpse is not a good thing. Don’t just lie there. Get involved. Move. Make some noise. If sex isn’t pleasurable for you, what’s missing? Try different positions, or locations throughout the house. Whatever ignites things for you.”— Corey Allan, simplemarriage.net
“Not giving blowjobs. Somewhere along the way, some women picked up the belief that giving head is hard, or a burden, or even a little degrading. But the flip side to that is that it’s the empowering way to intimately making your man come. Men love enthusiasm.”— Kate Ferguson, thebolde.com
“Skip the sense of humor. Sex at its best is still messy and full of unexpected hair pulls and noises from below. But it’s that way for everyone, so what can you do besides laugh it off?”— Kate Ferguson, thebolde.com
“Thinking too much. Don’t wait until you’re horizontal to start overanalyzing the state of your relationship. Distracted minds do not make for great orgasms.”— Kate Ferguson, thebolde.com
“Don't fake it. Its no secret we love women who have orgasms but faking it to please us only robs you of the pleasure you deserve and we want you to have. Besides, if we think we’re doing it right, it only makes us repeat the same style that achieved the fictitious result, and only takes you further…”— Richard, stylecaster.com
“Talk. Turn off any non-sexy talk. This is the time to connect with your partner in tactile ways. Get out of your head and into your body, and let your partner do the same.”— Julie Orlov, yourtango.com
“They expect their lover to read their mind. Men aren't mind readers and each woman can vary in terms of what pleases her and helps her reach orgasm. Let your partner know how he can please you. Be specific and concrete. Show him. Gentle but clear direction will be greatly appreciated. Your man wants…”— Julie Orlov, yourtango.com
“They don't take care of their hygiene. Be aware of your overall health and hygiene. If you know you're going on a hot date with your honey, shower, shave and lotion yourself up with your favorite body lotion. Be aware of any infections and take good care of your health.”— Julie Orlov, yourtango.com
“Worry about what you look like. Thinking about how you look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself and ruins your chances of achieving an orgasm.”— Lisa Zamosky, webmd.com
“Don't tell your partner to cum for you. Yes, I know you have their best intentions at heart when you say it, but honestly, it isn’t really going to help matters. No matter how much you tell your partner to cum it just isn’t going to happen. You actually need to give them pleasure for it to work.”— Emma Ziff, blogher.com
“I never, ever want to hear the baby voice during sex. Full disclosure, I never want to hear it, but it's even worse during sex.”— Lane Moore, cosmopolitan.com
“High five! Alright people, this isn't drunken sex in a dorm room. This is adult sex. You can do better.”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.com
“See you becoming sleepy. Talk about a buzz kill. Showing you're sleepy shows him you're not focused and uninterested — both of which can ruin the moment.”— Liz Newman, yourtango.com