“He calls when he says he will. He doesn’t stand you up to go with his friends. He isn’t caught telling little lies. He wants to spend his time with you. He picks up the phone when you call. You can depend on him. He helps you with your problems. He doesn't disappear. He’s waiting to have sex. He isn…”— Kara King, amazon.com
“The real trick becomes picking and choosing a man who meets a majority of the standards which are important to you AND treats you the way you want to be treated. You may have to wait awhile for him to come around, but he will come. However, you’ll never meet him if you’re busy staying committed to a…”— Kara King, amazon.com
“You must be attracted to the way a man treats you, before you are attracted to ANYTHING else about him.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“The day you make it hard and make them fight for your affection is the day they’ll begin to pursue you, respect you, chase after you and wait patiently for your love.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“If a man doesn’t meet a majority of your requirements, especially the important ones, let him go!!!”— Kara King, amazon.com
“Confidence has nothing to do with your looks or body. It has everything to do with being you and not apologizing for it.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“If you don’t value yourself, you will always end up with the men at the bottom of the barrel.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“Men act as if they want to know, but they don’t. They just don’t realize they don’t want to know until it’s too late and they can’t get the image of another man giving it to you doggy style out of their head.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“They don’t pay attention to our hints, our passive aggressive behavior, our attitudes, and our clues as to what our beef is. When we do those things, they honestly don’t notice there’s a problem. Yes, they really are that clueless. When you realize how clueless they truly can be, you’ll see how easy…”— Kara King, amazon.com
“The woman they really want is the one who rejects them. They want to get the girl that’s a challenge and doesn’t give it up easily.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“Only fools rush in. As women, we get swept off our feet too easily. Don’t be so quick to like a new guy, especially one you just met or just started dating.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“Men only want you when you don’t want them. It’s all about the thrill of the hunt for a man.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“Men hate it when they can’t see into your head. If you control your emotions for a new guy, you’re making him wonder if you like him or not. When he can’t figure it out, he’ll work harder.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“Also remember to be a little bit patient. It may take him longer to approach you, than it would take you to approach him. Men work on their own time and this could be for a number of reasons. Sometimes it's because they have a fear of rejection. Other times it's because they don't realize.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“You’re going to give your emotions the time they need to heal. If you have a wound on your knee, do you keep picking at it? No. You wrap it up and leave it alone until it heals. Your emotions are no different.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“When you master the ability to control your emotions, you take away a man’s power over you.”— Kara King, amazon.com
“It’s also important for a woman to consider the smile she wears when her face is at rest. As I keep repeating throughout this book, men are observing your behavior and often spot you long before you see them. Walking around with the ‘too-cool-to-smile’ diva look on your face is uninviting and not wa…”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“First, she must dress and groom better than the women she most associates with. And secondly, she must dress and groom at least slightly better than the venue requires. Exceptionality is the fair price she must pay for a man’s undivided attention.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Eye contact is the single most effective way for encouraging a man to approach you.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com