“Lap dance. This position is another one that allows the woman to have major control. Once more, slow and steady wins the race in this case! Allowing the woman all of the control, the man can’t get carried away and climax too quickly.”— Jessica Starks, wwws.fitnessrepublic.com
“Missionary is one of the simplest ways to help prolong your bedroom behavior. In this position, you are able to have some control, being able to pause in between, which will help lengthen the experience.”— Jessica Starks, wwws.fitnessrepublic.com
“Side by side. This is another great shallow penetration position that doesn’t allow for much thrusting. It’s also very close and intimate. It’s a good position to use to take a little break and reconnect with each other.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Sitting in a chair. This is another position that can be a good alternative to doggy-style. You still get the rear entry, but since you’re in charge of the pace and depth, he can’t get carried away.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Spooning. This position creates shallow penetration, so he won’t get overstimulated. It also forces you to move slowly and subtly, since he’s likely to fall out if he gets too enthusiastic.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Doggy style, standing in the shower or up against the wall, and all those on-your-feet moves may have a last-longer effect.”— Carol Queen, yourtango.com
“Try positions that involve slow and steady sex over fast and furious. Positions that are physically tricky can also help him last longer since he’ll have to devote some of his attention to his acrobatics and balancing act.”— Coleen Singer, yourtango.com
“If your guy has a go-to move that always gets him off, switch it up.”— Healthy Women, healthywomen.org
“Start by suggesting moves like girl on top, which will help you control the pace (and slow it down if he's getting too close).”— Maggie Parker, womenshealthmag.com
“Stand by the edge of the bed, bending over with your hands on the mattress, as he enters from behind. You have total control here, using the vibe on your clit just the way you like it, plus it's just way animalistic and hot.”— Jill Hamilton, cosmopolitan.com
“Get in a spooning position with him as the big spoon and have him reach around to service you with the vibe while you feel quite well taken care of. Cuddly yet hot.”— Jill Hamilton, cosmopolitan.com
“Personally, I like to have a guy on all fours or lying on his stomach. On the other hand, I certainly wouldn't turn down a guy who wanted to sit on my face. It's up to you!”— Dave, manhuntdaily.com
“Sixty-nine. Compared with mutual oral-genital contact, mutual analingus requires somewhat more physical flexibility, but many people enjoy this position.”— My Pleasure, mypleasure.com
“Get your man to simply stand up and then bend over so that he is grabbing his ankles. It’s fine for him to bend his knees to make it more comfortable.”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.com
“Doggie-style licking is ideal because it also provides a fantastic rear view, and you can squeeze, rub and pull on other areas as you lick.”— Tiny Nibbles, tinynibbles.com
“You don’t have to go crazy and contort yourselves when you’re having sex. Sometimes just adjusting yourself a little bit – like lifting your legs up in the air during missionary, or squeezing your Kegel muscles during girl-on-top – can dramatically change the way things feel.”— Jillian Paulson, thoughtcatalog.com