“Another fun oral position to try is "under the sink." She stands right next to the side of the bed and squats down a little. There should just be enough room for you to lay on your back on the bed and place your head between her legs. She is mostly in control of her own pleasure. She can squat furth…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.com
“Try the reverse hug technique. This shouldn't be too hard if you're in good shape. You'll need to hold her upside down in front of you. Her head and shoulders should rest on the bed, and her back should rest against your chest and stomach. Hold her up a bit so that she won't feel too much pressure a…”— Heather Jennings, sheknows.com
“When giving a woman oral sex, try to get yourself into a position where your hands are free to add an extra element. If you’re able to caress her body and breasts while giving oral, then great.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.com
“Your partner probably knows the position that’s most comfortable for her to be in, but if she’s open to suggestions, put a pillow under her butt to lift her pelvis up, which will give you great leverage—and make her feel fantastic.”— Erin Stevens, mensfitness.com
“Want to be better at sex? Well then you have to have sex, silly! When it comes to fooling around, the best way to work on your skills is to actually do, not just read or talk about it. Have a little casual sex in order to become amazing at is so that when you find the person you want to be in a rela…”— Jessica Booth, gurl.com
“I lifted her hips, wrapping her legs around my waist and grasped the headboard behind her.”— Fiona Davenport, amazon.com
“Try different positions. Lying on your back or side will be less messy than going at it on top.”— Diana Spechler, womenshealthmag.com
“As the saying goes, prime real estate is all about location, location, location. The same principle applies to anal sex. It's all about position, position, position. And don't forget the lube — lots and lots of slippery lube to make your first time more enjoyable.”— Bethany Ramos, sheknows.com
“It’s imperative that the guy who’s going to be penetrating me is trustworthy and gentle, and not an asshole. Assholes don’t mix with my asshole. I’m going to be getting in sexual positions where my body will look fleshy and revolting. It will seem like I’ve magically gained 20 pounds somewhere for n…”— Ryan O'Connell, thoughtcatalog.com
“Experiment with different positions. In seated position, you can try lowering yourself onto the cock and going at your own pace. If you’re in a doggie position, back up onto the cock. Feeling in control is another great way to alleviate anxiety and relax.”— Tess Danesi, blogher.com
“For those just starting out, I think getting on all fours might be a little too intense, because she doesn't have as much control. Lying on your side in the spooning position won't allow penetration that's as deep. It's also a more relaxing position. When you become more comfortable, the doggie is t…”— Jill Provost, yourtango.com
“You can lie flat on your stomach, get in doggy-style, or do missionary — and that is the order of what will hurt the least to the most. At least, in my (minimal) experience.”— Anna Breslaw, cosmopolitan.com