“Figure out what part of your body is his favorite and pick positions that highlight it. Cowgirl for your boobs, reverse cowgirl for your ass, standing while grabbing your ankles for your back, kneeling together for your hair. It’ll be fun for him and make you feel extra hot knowing that he’s getting…”— Lola Black, thoughtcatalog.com
“Don’t forget about your hands. Trace his body with your fingers, hold down his arms when you’re on top, tangle your hands in his hair.”— Lola Black, thoughtcatalog.com
“Fondle his balls or play with his ass–with permission. Every guy is different. Some will get turned on by those moves, and some will immediately get turned off.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“The longer it takes, the better it is. Unless it takes forever. The happy medium here is to try to get a guy close to coming as quickly as you can, then tease him once he’s there to extend the experience.”— Scott Alden, thefrisky.com
“Let me be perfectly clear and say that you absolutely do not have to emulate porn in order to satisfy your guy. But if you’re comfortable with it (or even turned on by it), inviting him to come somewhere on you is… really nice.”— Scott Alden, thefrisky.com
“When he is lying on his stomach, try kissing a trail down his back, over his buttocks, and then gently nibbling along the fold and flicking it with your tongue before moving on to his inner thighs.”— Holly C. Corbett, shape.com
“If you’re with a man who enjoys this, start by stroking around the aureole and gently tweaking the nipple with your fingers. Lick around it and suck on it, increasing pressure and gently biting it. Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too.”— Claire Cavanah, shape.com
“To suck on a man’s thumb evokes sucking on something else, and can help him connect his mind and body during lovemaking. Start off foreplay by gazing into his eyes as you kiss his hands, and then suck on his thumb as a promise for what’s to come.”— Mark Michaels, shape.com
“If you really want a guy to climax and climax stat, grab his butt and pull him deeper into you. It will also make his orgasm better, especially if you clench your vaginal muscles around his penis.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com
“Turn yourself into someone else. Try wearing something you never would or acting in a way that's just completely not you. Create a whole new persona and stay in character. He’ll definitely be pushed to the brink of orgasm.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com
“Sexting, if you haven't done it yet, is, in one word, fantastic. It's basically the technological version of foreplay, and a perfect way to get both you and your partner in the mood.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com
“There are so many places where you can have sexy times with your partner, so keeping it just in the bedroom isn't an option. Spice it up! I'm not suggesting you take to a public bench for all to see, but with discretion and creativity, you can make it happen in more places than you know.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com
“You know how awesome sex feels when your guy takes his time to really rev you up beforehand? Well, experts say foreplay is just as important to maxing out his pleasure, too, since a slow mental build-up will intensify his arousal by megawatts. Jumpstart his libido with a few sensual kisses, then dra…”— Kelly Thore, cosmopolitan.com
“Here's the part where you normally rip your clothes off and throw them on the floor as fast as possible. But a better move? Stand in front of your guy, meet his gaze, and give him a front-row seat as you seductively strip down, piece-by-piece. Dudes are super visual, so the image of you slowly unvei…”— Kelly Thore, cosmopolitan.com
“Another favorite form of penile stimulation: the vaginal squeeze of a woman who's been doing her Kegel excercises. (Kegels strengthen the PC muscle, the one you clench when you want to shut off your flow of urine.)”— Robert Hamilton, redbookmag.com
“Some men say that having their testicles stroked as they come heightens the sensation.”— Robert Hamilton, redbookmag.com
“An element of sexual surprise can produce a powerful climax. Sometimes you need to cut through all the chaos and clutter of modern life. Anything from job pressure to money woes to kid problems to bedroom boredom can come between you and your man's deepest passions. Spontaneity can help bring him to…”— Robert Hamilton, redbookmag.com
“Men are erotic visualists, more intensely aroused by visual stimulation than women are. Some men say that watching a woman climax is the ultimate form of arousal for them.”— Susan Crain Bakos, redbookmag.com
“To increase his excitement and visual stimulation—and intensify clitoral and G-spot stimulation for you—move on an oval track rather than straight up and down. Imagine you're circumscribing an oval with your body, with the downstroke at one end of the oval, the upstroke at the other. Lean forward sl…”— Susan Crain Bakos, redbookmag.com
“If he's having trouble getting a firm erection, rub a small amount of oil or lubricant onto your palms and put one hand firmly around the base of his penis. Work the other hand from the base up to the head in a circular, twisting motion, as if you were following a winding staircase up his appendage.…”— Susan Crain Bakos, redbookmag.com