“We see the arm of a couch, you see a great prop for doggie style. We see a bra, you see a bondage tool. Being creative and looking for new ways to spice things up is crucial in a lover.”— Casey Gueren, womenshealthmag.com
“Rub his chest, rub his legs, massage his feet, play with his balls, look up at him and make sure he can see you. That way you’re stimulating his whole body, not just his piece.”— Heather Hailey, thoughtcatalog.com
“Maybe your guy will orgasm in 3 minutes or it might take him 30. If your man needs a little bit longer to pop his peach, coming up for a kiss when your lips get tired or when you lose stamina is a good way to keep the illusion of enthusiasm without actually getting bored down yonder.”— Heather Hailey, thoughtcatalog.com
“Blindfolding your partner with a scarf or tie is a great way to begin because whenever you take away one sense, the others senses become more heightened.”— Emily Morse, harpersbazaar.com
“Even if you're having amazing sex on a regular basis, the key to maintaining it is to switch up your sexual repertoire. Start by thinking of a few things you've always wanted to try but have been too shy, too busy or too stressed to actually put into action.”— Emily Morse, harpersbazaar.com
“Do not put my old man in a death grip and pull it so furiously that it feels like being trapped in a threshing machine. Don’t hold on for dear life. I’m lying flat on your futon. I’m going nowhere.”— Gavin James Bower, sabotagetimes.com
“Please don’t fake it. Crap or not, we like nothing more than a challenge.”— Gavin James Bower, sabotagetimes.com
“Ladies, grab your boyfriend’s dick and use that bad sucker to rub your clit. It’s fantastic foreplay for both of you. You get to use his penis as your own personal sex toy while taking control, and he gets to watch you squirm.”— Gigi Engle, elitedaily.com
“Reverse cowgirl is a spicy take on classic cowgirl. Instead of just going with plain girl-on-top, swivel around so your back is to your partner while you ride. It’s a fantastic visual experience for him and an all-access pass to your clit and his balls.”— Gigi Engle, elitedaily.com
“It may take a while for your lover to feel comfortable with you watching him masturbate, but luckily it seems most men find this quite a turn-on. My partner and I began slowly, him masturbating by my side after I had reached orgasm during sex. If you don’t feel comfortable with this, he can bring hi…”— Kat Williams, thefrisky.com
“There are some positions that give deeper penetration and heightened sensitivity, making it more likely that he’ll cum. The obvious one would be the doggy position.”— Kat Williams, thefrisky.com
“Sometimes, though, it’s the simple things that drive him wild: kissing the inside of his thigh, licking his earlobes, tickling his balls. These small acts can make all the difference. Discovering what makes your partner crazy with pleasure is a learning curve, so treat every sex session as a fun exp…”— Kat Williams, thefrisky.com
“Lip biting, earlobe nibbles, neck kissing, grinding against you at first to build up the anticipation.”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.com
“Act like all that matters is my pleasure and how I feel. That makes me sound selfish, but it makes me want to do to the same to the other party and makes me want to try to match their efforts. It can make for a very intense sexual experience.”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.com
“Moan. Don’t exaggerate the sounds. Just let them fly from your mouth naturally. It’ll sound way hotter than fake moans do.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Reach your hands around him, so you can leave scratch marks down his back. Or, if you can’t reach that sweet spot, reach for his thighs and dig your nails in there.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Grab the muscles on his arms or his legs and squeeze. Show him that you appreciate how hard he works out and that you think his body is drop dead gorgeous.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Try throwing your legs over his shoulders. You can either put your left leg on his left shoulder and your right leg on his right shoulder, or you could put both legs over the same shoulder. It’ll create slightly different types of sensations.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Over all? Just communicate. Be the girl who is unafraid to ask for what she wants and give her partner what they want. That’s how you have the best sex. It just is.”— Lola Black, thoughtcatalog.com