“Have sex with her using a strap-on from behind, and reach forward to hold her . Tugging on her hair in this position also adds a kinky edge.”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.uk
“Double-enders are proof that there is a god. One end in you, one in her – rock 'n' roll!”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.uk
“Not all queer women want to have sex with men, but that doesn’t mean we don’t like to give or receive blow jobs. Strap-ons can lend themselves to exciting power exchanges between women, and can be empowering because they allow us to take ownership over heterosexual or gay sex acts.”— Noah Michelson, huffingtonpost.com
“Some women can only get off with a vibrator or other sex toy. Some women prefer to. Some women just really like vibrators or dildos included sometimes. Some women prefer not using them, or sometimes don't want to use them.”— Heather Corinna, scarleteen.com
“There are a lot more options than just dildos and vibrators. Browse a lesbian friendly vendor like Babeland or Good Vibrations and pick something out to take your loving to the next level.”— Kathy Belge, lesbianlife.about.com
“The Naughty Student: Bend over the bed and have your partner penetrate you from behind with a strap-on dildo.”— Samantha Allen, thedailybeast.com
“Sex toys are great but not for your first time. Be present with your new lover’s body, her breathing, her scent and her sounds. Save toys for later. Toys are great. I love them, but I don’t need them for a first time experience with any woman.”— Mary Gorham Malia, datingadvice.com
“Bring home a bag of tricks. Hit up the sex toy store, and drop the bag of goodies in his lap.”— Amanda Chatel, yourtango.com
“Leave a sexy prop, like the vibe you like to use together or warming lube, on his pillow to signal your interest. If he asks you about it, just wink…and then go for it.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“Sex toys are NOT regulated. If you are using or have any sex toys that are porous, made of PVC, contain Phthalates, are jelly in texture, and/or smell like chemicals beware that they are harmful to your body. Get rid of them immediately. They contain toxins and chemicals are highly harmful to your v…”— Bonnie Gayle, yourtango.com
“Tantra. Tantra isn’t just fluffy feathers and luxurious touch, it’s a way of totally reframing sexuality into something sacred, ecstatic and mind-blowingly amazing.”— Rebecca Lowrie, sex.sofeminine.co.uk
“Sex swing. If your plan is to have sex with this one person for the rest of your life then you MUST spice things up, and the sex swing is just good old fashion fun. Guys on top, girls on top, it doesn’t matter because the sex swing allows so many different positions and methods.”— Kyle Dowling, guyspeed.com
“Using a vibrator. Um, there are still people who don't own one? Women, get on the vibratory train! If you're not comfortable taking care of business alone, go ahead and involve your partner.”— Casey Mullins, yourtango.com
“Rhythm is a technique that can also be easily practiced by either using a vibrator that provides a rhythm option or it can also be done with your fingers, by looping the same motion over and over until there’s an orgasm.”— Amanda Chatel, amazon.com
“Silicon-based lubricants are slippery and perfect for finger play. But keep in mind that it’s best to use a water-based lube, like Astroglide, with your sex toys so it doesn’t damage the product.”— Marie Gartee, shape.com
“Lying on your stomach, you can grind your clit against a vibrator or pillow while your hands roam elsewhere. You can also strap a dildo to a chair or suction it to a wall, and thrust onto it while you use your hands to play with your clitoris. Whichever way you do it, the more erogenous zones you en…”— Carlyle Jansen, thefrisky.com
“Aim the toy's curve toward your navel when you insert it—the G-spot is a couple of inches inside the vagina, on the front wall.”— Diana Spechler, womenshealthmag.com
“While you're in the bathroom, a showerhead works just as well (if not better) than battery-powered playthings.”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.com