“First, get in a position you find comfortable, such as on your back or on your stomach.”— Eve, adameve.com
“Once you have become fully acquainted with your new toy/best friend, you can then increase your pleasure by adding new toys to your collection to use with your vibrator which can often be a much more effective method of multi-stimulation than using a product with all the bits attached.”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.com
“Make sure you’ve got it fully charged (or with fresh batteries) before you begin. It’s fun, and time flies, and nothing’s worse than having a sex toy die on you when you’re a bare three seconds from climax.”— The Debrief, thedebrief.co.uk
“If your vibrator has a point or an edge try touching yourself with the finest point of the vibrator. Next put the widest or flattest part of your vibrator against your body. When you focus on one point, the vibrations can feel more intense than when the vibration is being dispersed around a wider ar…”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“In purchasing your first vibrator, my first recommendation is that you make an investment. You may be tempted to buy something cheap if you’ve never used a sex toy before, but I really think you’re better served saving up your pennies to buy a high-quality product. More money typically buys more tho…”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“Because this act doesn’t involve the typical body parts we involve in sex, it’s good to have hands free for stimulation of other erogenous zones either by hand or small vibrator.”— Katy Thorn, lelo.com
“If you're a girl who's into blindfolds, handcuffs, whips, chains, etc. then show up with all of it.”— Kiley Coleman, love.allwomenstalk.com
“Try a vibrator held by either of you or consider wearing a small one during intercourse so your hands can be exploring other places.”— Megan Morris, womenshealthmag.com
“Toys, especially vibrators, provide a stimulation that even the most skilled fingers and tongue can’t, so there’s no shame in using a vibrator on your clitoris while your partner penetrates you.”— Amanda Chatel, bolde.com
“Women who use vibrators say they have an easier time reaching orgasm during (vibrator-free) sex with a partner.”— Marie Claire Magazine, marieclaire.com
“If you’re just starting out, try a stretchy cock ring on for size. After he’s comfortable wearing that, you can carefully measure for a stone, glass or metal cock ring.”— Adriana, badgirlsbible.com
“Tie a scarf around her eyes to blind her, use handcuffs to secure her wrists together, or take out a whip to slap against her backside.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“You have needs and if you can't get satisfaction from a flesh and blood human being, then you turn to battery operated devices. They do the job perfectly fine.”— Camila Villafane, allnight.com