“Try to do it more often. When your man gets more accustomed to doing it, he’ll freak out less about how hot it is and contain himself at least for a few more minutes.”— Ashley Uzer, galoremag.com
“Have him make his thrusts shallow and don’t let him enter you all the way. Deep thrusts can make him reach the big O faster than short, shallow thrusts.”— Elizabeth Yetter, thetalko.com
“Try positions that involve slow and steady sex over fast and furious. Positions that are physically tricky can also help him last longer since he’ll have to devote some of his attention to his acrobatics and balancing act.”— Coleen Singer, yourtango.com
“Monitor your man’s rhythm and breathing as you are having sex. Once you notice a slight increase in his pace, ask him to stop any movement. You can then start asking him about things that are unrelated to sex just to make him stop thinking about sex. Keep the conversation going until you feel that h…”— Dave Martinez, youqueen.com
“Showing him that you understand the situation will help in reducing the pressure on his mind. Tell him, for example, that you enjoy sex with him whether or not you reach orgasm. This will ensure that that he keeps performing without any fear of disappointing you. And as he becomes more confident, he…”— Dave Martinez, youqueen.com
“If your guy has a go-to move that always gets him off, switch it up.”— Healthy Women, healthywomen.org
“Squeeze the base of his penis. Think of it like bending a hose in half to stop the flow of water, but definitely do not bend his penis in half under any circumstances. Just give it a firm grip.”— Frank, cosmopolitan.com
“Have him masturbate beforehand. Ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to come quickly.”— Frank, cosmopolitan.com
“Oh what we could do with your dress up round your shoulders We could leave all our fears behind”— Mason Jennings, open.spotify.com
“Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman).”— Milan Kundera, amazon.com
“Choosing a vibrator together, as a couple, is a great way to connect and understand each other even better. Visit a store where you can both see, touch, and hold the various products firsthand, or if you prefer, you can browse together online.”— Natasha Burton, k-y.com
“Have your partner slowly run your vibrator up and down your upper thighs, getting close to your clitoris but not quite touching it.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“Press the vibrator against your clitoris while your partner continues his/her thrusting motion. Or switch things up and insert the vibrator inside your vagina while your partner provides manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris.”— Hannah Cutts, empowher.com
“I cared about her as a person, as a soul, and I wanted to fuck her, and that was the recipe for something much worse than carnal sin. It was a recipe for falling in love.”— Sierra Simone, amazon.com
“She wanted to be the rain, to cover him with moisture, to bring life to his seed.”— Caris Roane, amazon.com
“I want to take you until you are boneless. I want to drain you of strength. I want to fill you and take my fill of you.”— Kathryn Smith, amazon.com
“Love making is much more than physical expression, it is a soulful dance of sensual wonder and euphoric amazement.”— T. F. Hodge, amazon.com