“Calm down Shakespeare, nobody has time to sit there and read the great American novel of all the things you want to do. Keep it short and sweet.”— Gayana Sarkisova, elitedaily.com
“Don't sext before you actually have sex. There is nothing that can possible be worse than over delivering via text and under delivering in real life.”— Gayana Sarkisova, elitedaily.com
“Weave a narrative into your messages. This way, you get to build slowly up to a climax, teasing and tantalizing him all the way. In other words, tell him a story of what you plan on doing to him.”— Sean Jameson, elitedaily.com
“Thankfully, naked selfies aren’t the only type of picture that will keep your man happy. Lingerie, semi-naked selfies and any suggestive poses work great, too.”— Sean Jameson, elitedaily.com
“Many girls (and most guys) think sexting is all about getting to the point, but if that’s your perception on sexting, then you’re missing out on powerful sexting technique: building sexual tension. It’s the perfect way to get your man quivering with excitement and desperate to see you by sending him…”— Sean Jameson, elitedaily.com
“Unless you’re trying to be more funny than sexy, you should skimp on the emoticons. You don’t have to put a winking face at the end of your sentence for him to understand you’re flirting. He’ll get it.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“I know sexting is informal, but you should still pay attention to your spelling and your grammar. If he has to reread a sentence ten times in order to understand what you’re trying to say, he’s going to lose his hard-on.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Use crude terms. No guy wants to hear about how badly you want to stick his penis in your mouth. He wants to hear about how you’re going to suck his cock until he cums.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“To eliminate the odds that the wrong set of eyes sees them (and hacks or forwards the thread so total strangers read them too), hit delete.”— Marie Gartee, shape.com
“Once you've been dating for a while, a naked pic or two may be fine as a memento. But for new sexters, just the thought of sex with you should be enough to get a guy hot and bothered. If your crush is bugging you to send pics, try painting a picture with words instead.”— Drew Grant, cosmopolitan.com
“Don't dive into the digital dance of depravity without first deciding what you want the end result to be. Do you want to meet up that night for some nooky? Just looking for a sext buddy? It's all good, but having a clear idea of what you want to get out of the experience makes it easier to set bound…”— Drew Grant, cosmopolitan.com
“The fun part of sexting is to be aggressive, not passive, so don't worry about what a "nice guy" would think. Believe me, even the nicest guys appreciate some naughty.”— Drew Grant, cosmopolitan.com
“In front of a screen. Sometimes, proximity and long distances get in the way of our sex lives. But technology has definitely helped raise the pleasure of old fashioned phone sex. These days, you can text, FaceTime, Skype, or send self-destructing photos back and forth to each other instantly, at any…”— Kris Norton, therichest.com
“How many sexts do you have from him on your phone? Or how many dick pics? (Men, stop sending those if we haven’t asked for them!) It’s a tell tale sign that he’s only interested in your body — not your mind.”— Christy Goldstein, thoughtcatalog.com
“He shows no interest in getting to know you or your interests. All conversations quickly veer towards what he wants to do with you (or to you) when he gets you in bed.”— Lorna Poole, yourtango.com
“Sexting, if you haven't done it yet, is, in one word, fantastic. It's basically the technological version of foreplay, and a perfect way to get both you and your partner in the mood.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com