“If you’re messaging photos to a non-significant other, don’t show your face. Don’t. Show. Your. Face.”— Brooke Sager, thrillist.com
“Y R U choosin 2 talk lik a tween? Who culd eva b trnd on by dis?? No one wants to be deciphering your sexual hieroglyphics when they could be quietly shifting in their lecture seat so the seam of their jeans hits things just right.”— sexting, vice.com
“If you're just starting out, three to four words are all you need. A length limit forces you to get straight to the point and eliminates the possibility of embarrassing yourself by using adjectives like "pulsing," which makes your pussy or dick sound like the still-beating heart of a butchered mamma…”— sexting, vice.com
“If you’re going to be sending pictures, have a gallery ready and don’t send that full nude right away. It just ruins the whole suspense of the sexting. You have to set the stage, so to speak. Send pictures like you’re slowly undressing yourself for them in still frames, just like they would see you…”— Bella Pope, lovepanky.com
“Stay away from the corny lines. Unless you know your partner is going to find a certain line ridiculously sexy and turn them on immediately, don’t be cheesy.”— Bella Pope, lovepanky.com
“Keep the ‘we’re not supposed to be doing this’ vibe in the air. This works best if the two of you are supposed to be otherwise occupied with work, meetings, at the doctor’s office, etc.”— Bella Pope, lovepanky.com
“Compliment your partner. You never forgot the guy who worshipped your long legs or waxed poetic about your breasts. Everyone likes a compliment, and since you’re probably attracted to the person you’re bedding, it shouldn’t be hard to come up with one.”— Kaitlin Menza, womenshealthmag.com
“Talk about a memory. Can you recollect any sexy incidents that always turn both of you on? Perhaps, the time when you almost got caught, or the last time you gave him a road head?”— Morgan Miller, lovepanky.com
“Calling each other a bitch and a dog could excite a few *animal lovers*, not everyone else. If you like it, use it a couple of times and see if your man reciprocates by calling you something indecent in return. If he doesn’t say anything or looks surprised, don’t worry about it and just switch to so…”— Morgan Freeman, lovepanky.com
“There are a lot of naughty things that pass through your head. If you can think it, say it to your man. If you’re aroused, it’s definitely going to sound dirty.”— Morgan Miller, lovepanky.com
“For a lot of women, the point of talking dirty is to get more of what they want. Some people are totally satisfied and just incorporating it as a fun thing, which is great, but you can use it to ask for what you need or to make sure he stays put and keeps doing what he's doing.”— Dana Myers, marieclaire.com
“Just say what you feel. If you love a position or angle, tell him! Say I love it when you grab my ass.”— Dana Myers, marieclaire.com
“You don't need to jump in with anything extreme. Something that can read as innocent as I love the way your tongue feels on my skin obviously means a whole lot more.”— Dana Myers, marieclaire.com
“Don’t sext while you’re drunk. Sexting only works when it’s enticing and even witty. It’s like mental foreplay with your guy. So never sext when you’re drunk because it probably won’t be as sexy as you imagined it in your head.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Always text something that you really plan on doing, so there is follow through. Be imaginative, but don’t make it an utter fantasy or an empty promise”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Aside from human error in grammar and spelling, autocorrect is also the bane of sexting in the moment. Instead of saying you want to stroke his thighs and run your fingers on his hard chest, you might end up saying you want to string his things and ruin your fingerlings on his harvest. Double check…”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Tell him what got you totally turned on the last time you were together. Maybe it was the way he sensuously ran his hands through your hair. Or the way he swirled his tongue on your clitoris when he went down on you…”— Amy Levine, womenshealthmag.com
“In all fairness, sexting is the only time you can be a tease and have it be appreciated. The best sext stems from built up anticipation; don't show all the goods at once.”— Gayana Sarkisova, elitedaily.com