If Dating Is A Game Learn To Play By The Rules

“Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing things you want done because he’ll always want to look like ‘a king’ in your eyes.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Never on a first date ask a man if they're looking for a relationship.”

— Kevin Grey, amazon.com

“A big mistake insecure women make in the early stages of dating is trying to sell themselves to a guy. This can be completely innocent, but it comes from a deeper sense of insecurity and inadequacy.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“When a woman turns her entire life around her guy, it gives him some form of claustrophobia.”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“He received your message! A good rule to live by is if you send a text message and receive no response--you should never send a second one.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“Don’t be so blunt, obvious, or available.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“To avoid playing into his hands, you have to be a bitch with your actions, not your words.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Sixty percent of all human communication is nonverbal, body language; thirty percent is your tone. So that means that ninety percent of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie to you! She's a nice person. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings. What else she g…”

— Kevin Bisch, Alex "Hitch" Hitchens, Will Smith, imdb.com

“The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Not if you pay attention. I mean, you're sending all the right signals - no earrings, heels under two inches, your hair is pulled back, you're wearing reading glasses with no book, drinking a Grey Goose martini, which means you had a hell of a week and a beer just wouldn't do it. And if that wasn't…”

— Kevin Bisch, Alex "Hitch" Hitchens, Will Smith, imdb.com

“You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your ‘all.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Chasing a man may work out for a little while, but the happiest women understand that confidence comes from knowing he wants you.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com