We All Get Jealous Sometimes: 20 Quotes For Overcoming It And Having Security In Your Relationship

“If you catch yourself seeking the validation of others, change the direction of your thoughts, redirect the attention away from you, and instead focus it on the bigger picture.”

— Jessica Riley, amazon.com

“A mindful person accepts who they are and gives that same respect to the people that share in his/ her life. Making comparisons cheapens what is unique about a person. Being mindful means refusing to compare your life path with others, and also never expecting your partner to be someone who they are…”

— Simeon Lindstrom, amazon.com

“In a healthy relationship, you will also have a reasonable amount of self-esteem, which would mean that you value yourself enough to believe that you are exactly what your partner needs, so they have no reason to stray.”

— Jessica Riley, amazon.com

“Never compare yourself or your relationship to others, simply compare it to what it was yesterday.”

— Jessica Riley, amazon.com

“Jealousy is born out of our need to feel secure, worthy or safe in our relationship.”

— Stanley Steel, amazon.com

“When you try to control your partner, you are at risk of pushing them away. It is oppressive to have someone constantly trying to lure you away from the things you enjoy, or being critical of what you are doing. Relationships that are vibrant require that two people be in control of their individual…”

— Stanley Steel, amazon.com

“People who are habitually insecure in love relationships would say they are looking for acceptance, nurturance, and unconditional love.”

— Carl G Hindy, J. Conrad Schwarz, Archie Brodsky, amazon.com

“A person who experiences romantic insecurity tends to be both anxious and obsessed. For such a person, love is a tempestuous experience, involving a range of emotions: on the one hand, excitement, joy, and sexual arousal; on the other, distress, fear, shame, anger, contempt, and disgust. Everyone fe…”

— Carl G Hindy, J. Conrad Schwarz, Archie Brodsky, amazon.com

“Remind yourself that where you are is not where you will always be. You only get stuck when you fail to push yourself to do something to get yourself out of that difficult situation you are in.”

— Ashley Rosebloom, amazon.com

“Oftentimes when jealousy is present in relationships, its roots are related to rejection and abandonment. A jealous partner may have been rejected or abandoned at some point in their life and the fear of feeling that pain again causes jealous behaviors to surface.”

— Robert Rain, amazon.com

“Remember your self-value and inner joy is a reflection of loving yourself rather than the result of looking for approval from others.”

— Robert Rain, amazon.com

“If two people can fully trust one another and are good at communicating with each other, jealousy will never win. NEVER!”

— Robert Rain, amazon.com

“The seed of a doubt that you are not as good as someone else is where it all starts.”

— Sofia Price, amazon.com

“It would be a good idea to write down a list of the reasons why you believe that you are jealous, together with your line of thinking and past experiences.”

— Sofia Price, amazon.com

“You should keep in mind and even repeat to yourself that you are loved by your significant other, that he is with you for good reasons and because he chooses to. He”

— Jackson Sandau, amazon.com

“If you have to convince someone to stay with you, then they have already left.”

— Shannon L. Alder, thinkpozitive.com

“If I am always comparing myself to others, I will forever be at war with myself. And who needs that?”

— Khloé Kardashian, amazon.com

“Insecurity is the worst sense that lovers feel: sometimes the most humdrum desire less marriage seems better. Insecurity twists meanings and poisons trust.”

— Graham Greene, amazon.com

“Consider for a moment the possibility what you are feeling has more to do with your doubts, insecurities, misunderstandings or misinterpretations than anything that your partner is doing.”

— Stanley Steel, amazon.com

“Your love is as stable as you are.”

— Criss Jami, amazon.com