Good Guys Do Exist: 35 Tips That'll Change The Way You Date Forever

“I realize this sounds cheesy, but you cannot be happy with someone else until you’re happy with yourself. Stop trying to flirt with everyone and stop trying to set up a lot of dates. Don’t think of every crush as a potential boyfriend. Don’t read too far into things. Take things slow with someone an…”

— Jessica Booth, gurl.com

“If a guy likes you, he will make an effort. He’ll call or text, or he’ll ask you on a date. Or he’ll try to meet up somehow. Don’t try to go after him if he’s repeatedly telling you he’s busy or that we should take a raincheck. It means he’s just not interested.”

— Kim Quindlen, thoughtcatalog.com

“If you just want to hook up when you’re drunk, and he wants the same, then more power to you both. However, if you have real feelings for this person, and he only wants you around when you’re drunk and naked, this is a huge deal breaker.”

— Geena Goozdich, elitedaily.com

“Ask questions to find out what your match is passionate about. What drives them? For example, "What’s the most important value in your life right now?’ or ‘What are your long-term goals and short-term goals?" These are great ways to get to know someone better, which will empower you to be better abl…”

— Bobby Box, bustle.com

“Insecurity woes. Don’t let your insecurities get the better of you. Sex appeal is all in your mind and how you project yourself.”

— Ethan Kent, lovepanky.com

“Do Not Settle: In the end, you'll be much happier being single than wasting time with the wrong person. Hold out for the one who is right for you.”

— Jeannie Assimos, eharmony.com

“One study showed that men are more attracted to responsive women, and women who were kind and warm right off the bat. That doesn't mean being over-the-top eager—you don't have to laugh at his jokes if they're not funny—but it's definitely OK to respond to that text in a timely manner, or tell him ho…”

— Womens Health Mag, womenshealthmag.com

“No matter how much money he’s spent on you or how badly you think it may hurt his feelings, don’t ever do anything that makes you uncomfortable. You have a gut instinct; listen to it. If a man is really worth it, he will understand.”

— Leslie Frey, lifehack.org

“Our standards slide when we fear we won’t find somebody, so we settle for anybody. While this speaks to the nurturing capacity of women to love just about anybody, we need to learn that we can still be loving and be selective. Decide now that you will only date a man who meets your ‘Musts.”

— Leslie Frey, lifehack.org

“There are way too many of us who jump from one relationship to the next, completely uncomfortable with the idea of being alone. Not good. What is great is to be comfortable, confident and happy on your own before you embark on a relationship.”

— Jeannie Assimos, eharmony.com

“Finding a good man may appear to be difficult but it doesn't have to be. The key is learning how to manage your emotions and take actions which increase your chances of finding the type of man you are looking for.”

— Joe Amoia, yourtango.com

“It's not about getting someone to think you're good enough for them. It’s about finding someone you can stand to spend a ridiculous amount of time with. It's about finding the puzzle piece you fit with.”

— Jen Anderson, yourtango.com

“Men who volunteer their time and energy to causes, charities or organizations often show that they are emotionally available and relationship ready.”

— Joe Amoia, yourtango.com

“You're not going to be able to fix him.”

— Jen Anderson, yourtango.com

“You are not trying to find out if the person you are flirting with or dating accepts YOU. You are trying to figure out if YOU accept HIM.”

— Maura Kelly, marieclaire.com

“If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he'll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he'll also take time to appreciate who she is.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he is your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Remember, a man is only as good as his word.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“But men who are interested in you will ask you more than a few questions.”

— Adrienne Mansfield, amazon.com

“You must be attracted to the way a man treats you, before you are attracted to ANYTHING else about him.”

— Kara King, amazon.com

“He remembers everything you told him. Seriously guys aren't good at remembering details, but if he does he probably likes you.”

— Akshay, lifehacks.io

“Sometimes the very thing you’re hiding from the world might be the one thing that makes you exceptionally beautiful to a man.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“A girl can tell a lot about how you will treat her by how you treat your sister and your mother.”

— Hplyrikz, 65.media.tumblr.com

“Always be prepared to walk away when your guy or the relationship is not giving you what you want or deserve. That said, try to have realistic expectations.”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“Nice guys finish last because they put their ladies first.”

— Hplyrikz, weheartit.com

“If a guy truly cares about you, he will want to make room for you in his life. Even if he has a lot going on and won’t be available for a few days, he’ll send a text or message to let you know he’s thinking about you.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“All you can do is be honest and real with him as you get to know each other. Deciding not to play games is the best way to go because it keeps things simple: If he messes it up by playing around with your heart, you'll know he doesn't deserve you. You were real with him, and he didn't return the cou…”

— Taylor Swift, eonline.com

“If she is not getting what she wants or needs from a relationship, the self-confident woman will feel comfortable articulating her needs or walking away.”

— Matthew Hussey, amazon.com

“The real trick becomes picking and choosing a man who meets a majority of the standards which are important to you AND treats you the way you want to be treated. You may have to wait awhile for him to come around, but he will come. However, you’ll never meet him if you’re busy staying committed to a…”

— Kara King, amazon.com

“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”

— Maya Angelou, amazon.com