For some reason we live in society where one-night stands are totally cool for men, but women who have them are just awful. I call bullshit on that. If you believe the same and know you can go into a one-night stand without feeling guilty ― guilt that’s brought on by society's double standards, mind…
Catalog
Amanda Chatel
One-night stands give us the opportunity to learn something new. Whether it’s something we learn about ourselves or some new sex technique that never crossed our mind before, there really are lessons to be learned during a one-night stand.
For years, I preferred one-night stands to real relationships, because I could get in and out, with as little small talk as possible, and be on my way. I didn’t have to sit through a boring date, ask questions and pretend to be interested just to be polite, or even have to text the next morning to…
Nothing seals a great kiss like telling each other, ‘You’re a great kisser.’ People love to hear when they’re doing something right.
While, yes, those lips are packed full of nerves, they're not the only erogenous zones in that general area. Like the neck and earlobes, but the shoulders and fingertips, too.
If you know that your chance to make out are very good, then skip the garlic, raw onions, and excessive coffee. Granted, sometimes a hot kiss isn’t planned, but if you can prep for it, do so.
Sexting, if you haven't done it yet, is, in one word, fantastic. It's basically the technological version of foreplay, and a perfect way to get both you and your partner in the mood.
There are so many places where you can have sexy times with your partner, so keeping it just in the bedroom isn't an option. Spice it up! I'm not suggesting you take to a public bench for all to see, but with discretion and creativity, you can make it happen in more places than you know.
If you really want a guy to climax and climax stat, grab his butt and pull him deeper into you. It will also make his orgasm better, especially if you clench your vaginal muscles around his penis.
Turn yourself into someone else. Try wearing something you never would or acting in a way that's just completely not you. Create a whole new persona and stay in character. He’ll definitely be pushed to the brink of orgasm.
We can thank legendary filmmaker, John Waters, for this important point: ‘If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't f*ck them.’ What does that mean exactly? People who love to read yearn to explore other worlds, get lost in other dimensions, continue to learn, and grow as human…
Eye contact is everything. From the moment you first meet someone to the moment you get into bed with them. If they can keep eye contact, they're engaged and paying attention to you. Who doesn't want that in bed?
They know how to take it easy. Anyone who’s relaxed is more likely to have a good time, orgasm more easily, and be a great sexual partner. We already know that stress and anxiety are bad for your sex drive.
Beg. This really doesn't need much of an explanation.
Remove your bra in his presence. Not really sure why this is so seductive — maybe it's the thought of them being just a bit closer to our breasts sans our bra — but if you remove your bra in front of him, then go back to what you're doing, he'll start thinking it's time for a romp.
Bring home a bag of tricks. Hit up the sex toy store, and drop the bag of goodies in his lap.
Referencing their ex’s technique. In referencing an ex’s technique during sex, you’re doing two things. 1) You’re comparing what your ex did to what your current partner is doing, which is beyond not cool. 2) You’re being rude.
Glancing at the time. If you want to convey to someone that you’re bored, and you haven’t gotten a text message that you can check to do so, you can always glance at the clock. But why would you do that? Why would you want to make someone feel so awful about themselves? Anyone who checks the time…