“Processing trauma doesn’t feel good but it does good. Procrastinating feels good but it doesn’t do good. If you let feelings totally control your actions, you will never progress.”Tagged: Psychology, How To Think, emotions, sensitivities, Thought
“People who are controlled by their emotions typically have something in common: they tend to only do what feels most comfortable. In other words, their emotions are organized into feels good and feels bad, not feels good or does good.”Tagged: How To Think, emotions, feels, Feelings, Emotional Intelligence
“You are constantly on a mission to improve your own life and the lives of those around you. Your core drive in life is to identify what needs to be fixed, and how you can possibly make it better.”Tagged: You Are Amazing, Friendly Reminders
“Maybe you were the hero you were waiting for, maybe you were the love of your life all along, maybe you were always happy and just thought you needed the reassurance of someone safe to let yourself feel it.”Tagged: Recovery, Finding Your Love For Yourself
“Perfectionists can actually use this impulse to their advantage. Their drive to do things better than anyone else can also translate into motivation to keep working on bettering something where others would have given up.”Tagged: Perfectionists, Success
“At a certain point, you have to remember that you weren’t born to just go to work each day, eat, sleep and eventually die.”Tagged: Day Jobs
“There is only one plot in life: nothing is ever as it seems.”Tagged: Life, Nothing Is As It Seems, Surprises
“What feels the strongest is not necessarily the most true.”Tagged: Feelings, Self-Control, Discipline
“If you want to change your life, you need to make tiny, nearly undetectable decisions every hour of every day until those choices are habituated. Then, you’ll just continue to do them.”Tagged: Change Your Life, Change, Becoming Stronger, Updating Your Habits
“This is because the outcomes of life are not governed by passion, they are governed by principle.”Tagged: Consequences, Life, Profound, Philosophical
“You fulfilling your potential and living your dreams can only have a positive ripple effect on those around you, and those whom you work with and service.”Tagged: success in life, Success, Money, finances
“But if connection is so important, how can it be that it is so often overlooked, and that there are almost no resources available to teach people how to foster real connection in their lives?”Tagged: connection to people, Connection, Psychology
“Every single time you tell a secret or important information to someone, if it’s interesting enough, they will tell their one person.”Tagged: Productivity, Self-Worth, Secrets, having Your shit together
“The world teaches you to have dreams, to believe in them, to stand by them, to fight for them no matter what. It rarely tells you that, over time, some dreams will eclipse others, some will get replaced, others will fall into the recesses of your mind.”Tagged: Dreams
“To change the world, you must be different than the world. To lead, you must go first. You must divert from the common path, you must navigate unmapped terrain.”Tagged: Change, Leadership, Going Your Own Way, Think Different
“The way in which age and timing plays into our ongoing fantasies about how successful we will be and when is twisted. But it’s not even just wrong, it’s limiting, it’s short-sighted, and it’s ultimately holding you back.”
“Instead of spending time to get money, truly happy people spend money to get time.”Tagged: Money, Being Happy
“What we think we become. And if what we are becoming is any indication, we are thinking far too much about the things that don’t matter and not making room for uncertainty, for discomfort, for the things that are indeed unknown but which yield the best outcomes. The ones that are indeed larger than…”Tagged: Mindlessness, mindfulness
“Don't ever get so hung up on plans and dreams and goals that you forget to leave room for the magical unknown. Don't forget that there are things out there so good, you wouldn't think to ask for them.”Tagged: Uncertainty, unknown, Waiting