“Happy people are not people who 'feel good' all the time; they are the people who are able to be guided by their negative emotions rather than paralyzed by them.”Tagged: Happiness, Joy, Acceptance, Emotional Intelligence
“We avoid things that are too perfect. We destroy them, mentally or otherwise, if they are.”Tagged: Happiness, Choice, Self-Sabatoge, Perfection
“Happiness is something that we have to consciously choose; otherwise we'd create the reality that we subconsciously think we deserve.”Tagged: Happiness, Choice, Consciousness, Reality
“You often do not know what's best for your life. Predicting your future does not make it more guaranteed to happy. It just closes you off. It gets you attached to an idea that you only want to be reality because you're attached to it.”Tagged: The future, Happiness, Predicting The Future, Change, Being Open
“People aren't interested or attracted to just 'happy' and 'beautiful.' They're interested in people who are interested in things.”Tagged: Happiness, beauty, Attraction, Personality
“A good life is not measured by what you do, it's about who you are. Not how many people you loved, but how much. It has nothing to do with how well things turn out or how seamlessly the plan is followed. It's about the bits of magic you stumble upon when you dive off path.”Tagged: Life, Magic, Happiness, A Good Life, Love
“What would be too good to believe if someone were to sit down and tell you what's coming next in your life?”Tagged: The future, Moving On, Moving Forward, Happiness, Joy
“We all have a tolerance for how 'good' we'll let ourselves feel, our 'upper limit.'”Tagged: Happiness, Joy, Upper Limit, Letting Yourself Be Happy
“If you're operating on a scarcity mindset, you'll always be unhappy, no matter what you have or get.”Tagged: Happiness, Scarcity, abundance, Allowing Happiness, Joy
“In fearing that happiness won't last forever, we lose it. In fearing that grief will last forever, we create it.”Tagged: Happiness, Fear, Grief, Self-Sabotage
“You cannot save up your happiness; you can either feel it in the moment or you miss it.”Tagged: Happiness, Joy
“Many of us are colorblind to the joys and complexities of our lives and it is because we are missing a part of the foundation.”Tagged: Happiness, Joy, Avoiding Our Feelings
“There are three primary form of happiness. Just as removing one of the primary colors would make many others impossible, without any one of these happinesses, it is almost impossible to thrive.”Tagged: Happiness, Thriving, Joy
“Happy people may lose everything they have but people who never choose to fully step into their lives never have anything at all.”Tagged: Happiness, Loss, Losing Happiness, Taking A Chance
“The idea that beautiful, joyous things could simply be ours without any conscious creation of them on our part is terrifying, because the opposite could just as well be true.”Tagged: Joy, Happiness, Fear, Accepting Happiness
“Happiness is arriving at the end goal. Deciding to be that way every day can make it seem as though the race is already over, so we subconsciously associate 'happiness' and 'acceptance' with 'giving up.'”Tagged: Happiness, Self-Sabotage, Giving Up
“Everybody has a limited tolerance for feeling good. When things go beyond that limit, we sabotage ourselves so that we can return to our comfort zones.”Tagged: Happiness, Comfort, Change, Growth, Self-Help
“As soon as our circumstances extend beyond the amount of happiness we're accustomed to and comfortable feeling, we unconsciously begin to self-sabotage. We are programmed to seek what we've known. So, even though we think we're after happiness, we're actually trying to find whatever we're most…”Tagged: Happiness, Self-Sabotage, Comfort, Change, Resisting Happiness
“When things don't work out the way you want them to, you think you've failed only because you didn't re-create something you perceived as desirable. In reality, you likely created something better, but foreign, and your brain misinterpreted it as 'bad.'”Tagged: Perception, Happiness, Good, Bad