Allowing yourself to be vulnerable is to risk abandonment and humiliation, but successful people fail without attaching their worth to the judgment of others.
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Cat Volz
Being vulnerable means becoming someone that somebody else wants to take care of. A man is at his best when he protects the woman of his choice and comes up with solutions for her problems. He likes to be admired for the ways he comes to the rescue. He wants to feel needed as her rock and her hero.…
You don’t need to fall in love with a man, you need to fall in love with yourself. He becomes an extension of how you care for yourself.
Your weight is correlated with how high quality of a wife or girlfriend you can be. If you are mindful about what you put into your body (including alcohol or drugs) and the way you care for it over time, this indicates that you place a high value on your worth.
The most common mistake women make is not putting enough effort into weight management. Evidence is everywhere you go. If you don’t believe your weight and diet affect you and your relationships, you are sadly misinformed. Health and vitality are everything!
You must first rid your life of everything that is unpleasant and unnecessary to make room for something better than what you’ve ever had before. We often find a treasure in the process.
A high value woman is always escorted to her car. Not only to ensure her safety while the man shines as her protector, but to prevent other men from getting her attention on her way out. High quality women receive attention-- keep it to yourself, or you may deter the best men from entering the…
Eliminate your ex. You couldn’t enjoy life together. Close that door
Men are motivated by fear of loss.
A man is initially fueled by his fantasies to be with you, which grow stronger the longer he must wait. He needs to prove himself to receive your time and attention, and to ultimately sacrifice his freedom to keep you off the market. The thought of you being with another man is his greatest fear.
A man will commit when the thought of you meeting other men becomes unbearable. He knows within a year if he wants to marry you.
If you want a specific man to fall in love you, you must become desirable enough for any and every man to fall in love with you. Only then is he truly lucky to have you, because your high regard for him has value.
The less you want a man, the easier it is for him to fall in love with you because your reactions are natural and uncensored.
Women who wrap men around their fingers know how to make a man feel needed and that his help is appreciated.
Men are the givers. We please men by graciously accepting what they offer, not by asking for or manipulating them into giving of their time, love, or material resources. Allow a man to offer, or he may feel pressured or resentful. If your needs are not being met, you have the option to leave.
Set intentions rather than expectations. Feminine energy is being open and receptive to each moment. Be gracious for all he provides without expecting more.
No matter how independent you are, a man needs to feel capable of being your hero, that you need him for protection, and for the ways in which he adds value to your life. Thank him for all that he does.
You only want to date men who love you, and who make your life better than it already is.
A man who is in love with you will try to make your life better. For a classically feminine woman, the most important thing he can do is to comfort you when you feel pain. Aside from differences in lifestyle he can provide, notice if a man is providing you value through some of his time.