“Women no longer accept white men as the official arbiters of right and wrong, of what is and is not technically constitutive of workplace hostility. If anything, white men would be the absolute worst judges of such affairs considering their relative social advantage.”Tagged: feminism, Shit-Toweling, Being a woman, Men Stifling Women, Men Talking Down To Women
“It’s 2017 and men somehow still believe that what feminists are asking for is validation. Women are not asking for men’s opinion.”Tagged: feminism, Shit-Toweling, Being a woman, Men Stifling Women, Men Talking Down To Women
“This is what shit toweling day in and day out does — it makes women feel like men really believe that their job is to just take men’s shit. Men should never be held personally accountable for their sexism. All sexism is really just women’s misunderstanding. It was a joke. It’s just locker-room talk.…”Tagged: feminism, Shit-Toweling, Being a woman, Men Stifling Women, Men Talking Down To Women
“When men try to stifle women’s right to grievance with bad-faith arguments so badly construed that it insults everyone’s intelligence, it is the emotional equivalent of when a man wipes his ass with a towel and then flings it in your face.”Tagged: feminism, Shit-Toweling, Being a woman, Men Stifling Women, Men Talking Down To Women
“Every day, men throw shit-stained towels in the face of women when they defend Bill Cosby and simultaneously accuse dozens of women of hearsay and fabrication. Or when they insist rape culture is just in women’s heads. These men demonstrate that they really think their extracurricular time is best…”Tagged: feminism, Shit-Toweling, Being a woman, Men Stifling Women, Men Talking Down To Women
““Why do young women have sex with men they don’t want to have?” is a question that begs another question: “How has men telling their female peers for the first decade of their adult lives that they aren’t ready for commitment affected women’s self-worth and thus their ability to set sexual…”Tagged: Modern Dating, Dating, Modern Romance, Sex, Intimacy
“At some point, I think a lot of women get the idea that nothing you have to say about your own dating experience really matters. The message sinks in slowly, over years, that women’s dating pain isn’t really a subject that the experts seem to care about. Obviously, if modern dating culture tortures…”Tagged: Modern Dating, Dating, Modern Romance
“Why is it so hard for men to acknowledge that sexual liberation never actually freed women? That our sexuality remains bound still by so many other man-made knots that it will take a great deal more effort than the offer of a zipless fuck to untangle us?”Tagged: Sex, feminism, Consent, Rape Culture, #metoo