“If in life we can learn to identify the internal voices of our wounding that get provoked in relationships and to sabotage them, we can reclaim our true selves and behave more maturely in our relationships. Only then we will stand a chance at successful relationships and the gift of intimacy.”Tagged: Wounding, wounds, Healing, Relationships
“People who doubt their own truth can never be real to their partner. They are always watching the partner so that they can adapt to the partner’s evaluation of the truth. 'No, tell me what you think of the situation,' is a favorite reply. They become who they think the partner needs them to be.…”Tagged: Your Truth, Relationships, Dependency, Know Yourself Before You Love Someone Else
“Recovery is about changing the conversation that has been placed inside our heads by immature, abusive parenting.”Tagged: Recovery, Parenting
“Healthy intimacy requires the trusting offer of our true self to another and our trusting acceptance of the other’s true self in return.”Tagged: Intimacy, Acceptance