“Remember: obvious flirting will reveal your intentions too clearly. Better to be ambiguous and even contradictory, frustrating at the same time that you stimulate.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love, seduction
“Self-esteem is critical in seduction. (Your attitude toward yourself is read by the other person in subtle and unconscious ways.) Low self-esteem repels, confidence and self-sufficiency attract. The less you seem to need other people, the more likely others will be drawn to you.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love
“Your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away, to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.”Tagged: Chase, Dating, Relationships
“Remember: it is the form that matters, not the content. The less your targets focus on what you say, and the more on how it makes them feel, the more seductive your effect. Give your words a lofty, spiritual, literary flavor the better to insinuate desire in your unwitting victims.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, seduction
“Successful seductions begin with your character, your ability to radiate some quality that attracts people and stirs their emotions in a way that is beyond their control.”Tagged: seduction, Relationships
“Every seduction has two elements that you must analyze and understand: first, yourself and what is seductive about you; and second, your target and the actions that will penetrate their defenses and create surrender.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, seduction
“Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to become a master at the game. All that is required is that you look at the world differently, through the eyes of a seducer.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships
“Never assume that the person you are dealing with is weaker or less important than you are. Some people are slow to take offense, which may make you misjudge the thickness of their skin, and fail to worry about insulting them. But should you offend their honor and their pride, they will overwhelm…”Tagged: life advice, strategy
“When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you…”Tagged: Impress People, talk, Say Little, Communciate
“Do not accept the roles that society foists on you. Re-create yourself by forging a new identity, one that commands attention and never bores the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define if for you.”Tagged: Create Yourself, Forge A New Way, Think Differently, Create Your Own Identity, Starting New
“The best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless as water; never bet on stability or lasting order. Everything changes.”Tagged: Power, Change, Flexibility
“If there is something you want but you cannot have, show contempt for it. The less interest you reveal, the more superior you seem.”Tagged: Power, Respect
“Never seem to be in a hurry -- hurrying betrays a lack of control over yourself and over time. Always seem patient, as if you know that everything will come to you eventually.”Tagged: Power, Respect, Time, Patience
“Give people options that come out in your favor whichever one they choose.”Tagged: Power, Secret, Option
“When you act, act effortlessly, as if you could do much more. Avoid the temptation of revealing how hard you work -- it only raises questions.”Tagged: Power, Effort, pretending
“What good is it to have the greatest dream in the world if others reap the benefits and the glory? Never lose your head over a vague, open-ended dream—plan to the end.”Tagged: Power, Dreams, plans
“Never waste valuable time or mental peace of mind on the affairs of others - that is too high a price to pay.”Tagged: Power, People