“Step 1. Masturbate frequently. At least until you become comfortable with your own body and figure out what you like.

Step 2. Don't be afraid to communicate that information with your partner. They aren't mind readers, and EVERY woman is different, so even if they are experienced you're going to get a lot of trial and error if you don't speak up.

Step 3 (advanced). Use the confidence you gained in step 1 with the communication you established in step 2 and really get into it.

Nothing in the world is sexier than a partner who is really IN to the moment. No sex move, no freaky fantasy, nothing.”