Book

10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men: Understand His Mind And Capture His Heart

10 Things Every Woman Needs To Know About Men - written by the founders of the hugely popular women's relationship website Anewmode.com - is an honest, non-sugarcoated guide to understanding men and cracking their code so you can finally have the l

(48 total)

Characters

Sabrina Alexis (48)Eric Charles (48)

“Your time is your responsibility. If you stayed in a bad relationship and it didn’t turn out well, you are partly to blame.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“If every guy you have ever dated has treated you poorly and broken your heart, then you need to consider that you are probably choosing the wrong men. If you stay with a guy even though he has made it clear he can’t or won’t give you what you want, and the relationship deteriorates, you can’t exactl…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“Guys commit slowly. He doesn't think about it really, he just thinks about how much he enjoys her company, and the fact that he would like more of it. The reason women struggle is because they get an idea in their head that things are not okay. The moment they start to really believe that, they feel…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“In the right relationship, you don’t feel like you’re walking on eggshells, worrying that you might screw something up. You don’t feel like you have to make it work. You don’t feel like you’re suffocating, wishing and hoping you’ll finally get some sweet relief and be able to breathe again. You aren…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“Girls think that playing hard to get will make a guy like them, and being too available will turn him off. This isn't true. Waiting a certain amount of time before texting him back and pretending to be busy when you’re not doesn’t get a guy to like you, it gets a guy to chase you. Does it work? Mayb…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“Commitment for a man comes down to this: Is my life better with her in it or not? If the answer is yes, he commits.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“Guys evaluate the quality of their relationship by the quality of the time spent with the other person. You can't measure the depth of a relationship by the number of texts received on average per day, or by how much time elapses between each text.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“When a man doesn't return a text or a call immediately, it is not an accurate indicator of disinterest. He's most likely busy or focused on something else at the moment.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“Sometimes a man will stop responding because he doesn’t see the point in talking unless it’s for the sake of making a plan. Or sometimes he’ll just run out of things to say because it’s just not natural for him to talk and talk (or rather, text and text), just for the sake of talking or texting.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationships, Guys

“Men don't place the same significance on certain things as women do. While women see constant texts as a sign that a guy really likes them, men don't see text messages and two-hour-long phone calls as necessary or important for bonding and building relationships.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“You will never be satisfied in your relationship unless you learn to truly love yourself. If you don't genuinely love yourself, you will never fully trust that anyone else can love you.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love

“When a woman is happy and not looking to get validation from the relationship, she transmits an irresistible vibe that draws her guy in, and he naturally becomes more invested in her and the relationship.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“When a woman jumps ahead and invests in a fantasy future, she becomes filled with fear and is no longer able to be present and in the moment. This blocks a true connection from forming.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“You are no longer in the here and now, seeing the situation for what it is. Instead, your mind is focusing on what it could be, and that’s when it becomes a problem.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Relationships, Dating, Guys

“I am always on guard when a girl goes all in too fast and I'd say most guys are. No guy wants to hurt a girl; it makes us feel like really terrible people. Girls get very attached quickly, every guy knows this, so if I'm not ready to handle it, and I’m not sure I want to go all in, I'll just end it.…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“Men are not thinking about commitment or where the relationship is going. They are simply enjoying the time spent with you and building a bond and a connection. If it feels good, he’ll keep going with it.”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“I was taking his words to be solid facts rather than expressions of fleeting feelings he was experiencing in the moment. Also like most women, I would jump way too many steps ahead any time I saw potential with a guy, and I would use any positive thing he said or did as proof that he wanted the same…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“The idea of letting a guy choose you gets twisted in modern dating advice. Women are told to hold back and play hard to get. But showing interest in a guy isn’t the problem. Only a guy with extremely low self-esteem will run from a woman he likes when she really likes him. The problem is when he fee…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Guys, Relationships

“It’s not that men don’t want to commit, it’s that men resent being backed into a corner and forced into something. It’s not a matter of him not wanting to be official with you, or not wanting the relationship to progress, or not wanting to give you the love and affection you need, it’s the feeling t…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys

“The sad fact is, most people are starving to connect in a real and genuine way. They want to be their authentic selves and feel loved for who they are. They want to be supported by someone who is their partner. At the same time, they are terrified that they don’t really deserve these things, or that…”

— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com

Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys