“Silicon-based lubricants are slippery and perfect for finger play. But keep in mind that it’s best to use a water-based lube, like Astroglide, with your sex toys so it doesn’t damage the product.”— Marie Gartee, shape.comTagged: masturbation, lube, fingering, sex toys
“Carve out a physical and mental space that makes you feel most relaxed: Draw a bath, light a candle, step away from your phone, or power down the TV.”— Marie Gartee, shape.comTagged: masturbation, set the mood, Relaxation, candles
“If you typically stroke yourself in a diagonal pattern—moving your fingers over your clitoris from side to side—try varying your stroke technique by caressing it using an up and down motion instead. Another option: Use one finger to trace circles around your clitoris without touching it directly.”— Marie Gartee, shape.comTagged: masturbation, clitoris, Variety, techniques