“Don't obsess. Don't think that just because you had a good time, you might be able to turn this into a relationship. Remember your intentions! You're only going to break your own heart if you fixate on this person. Does it happen that one-night stands sometimes turn into relationships? Sure. But don…”— Marianne, xojane.comTagged: Casual Sex, one-night stands, obsessions
“Respect your boundaries. If you head out to the club and you pick out someone you want to bone for the night and then you decide that, actually, you don't think you are going to respect yourself in the morning -- listen to yourself on that one. You can say no. That's not something you give up when y…”— Marianne, xojane.comTagged: Casual Sex, Say No, Self-Respect, Control
“Pick your standards. What are you looking for in a casual bed partner? I'm not saying you need to lower your standards, but there are plenty of people I'd consider a casual hookup with even though I'd rather not date them.”— Marianne, xojane.comTagged: Casual Sex, Standards, hookups