And remember this… When you begin to work overtime to be in a man’s life it’s because he’s not pulling his weight or doing his own fair share of the work. Which is making you work harder. And the harder you work the more he loses respects for you.
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Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering A Breakup and Taking Back Her Power
Some say to delete Mr. Ex’s text messages, emails and voicemails immediately. You know, out of sight-out of mind. I’m going to say keep them and let them serve as a reminder of the pain he may have caused you. And always remember this… love doesn’t hurt.
You may say that you believe this is playing games and you’re not one to play games. Well, how’s that working for you? In a perfect world there would be no need, but this isn’t a perfect world. Chances are he has been playing games with you for months, years or longer. Men live for the thrill of the…
Show him the silent treatment until he’s knocking on your door, making grand gestures and more importantly providing you with a plan that gives you what you need.
I realize ignoring him goes against every fiber of your being, but now more than ever you must show restraint and self-control.
If you stay in contact with him from the beginning of the breakup, you fail to make him
Because women fall apart when they’re not mentally prepared and are caught off guard… just as if you were notified about a loved one’s death. It shocks you! By the time your brain has registered exactly what has transpired, you immediately want to get everything out in the open. This is also a perfe…
The biggest myth about relationships is that men are afraid of commitment. What men are afraid of is losing the adrenaline rush they get when a new woman believes in her mind he’s some fantasy prince charming.
Maybe you were hard to get in the beginning, let him chase you like a lion chases its prey and then… he caught you. Maybe your only fault is being too nice and too available. And men believe women that are too nice and too available are not only thirsty for love, but are completely dehydrated. Most…
He’s expecting you to call and text him at all hours of the day and night professing your undying love. This is what the ‘hard to get man’ is accustomed to. And guess what? He’s losing respect for you each time he sees your name pop up on his phone.
A strong woman knows how to take care of her and the life that she has created. More importantly, she knows her mind. She doesn’t allow drama in her life. And she doesn’t allow a man to make her messy. She knows her value and self-worth and has the confidence and self-esteem to back it up. She’s wit…
Immediately after a breakup the hardest part is controlling your emotions. Which is why silence is golden… it camouflages your emotions. It’s perfectly fine to fall to pieces… just not in front of him. Stay calm, grounded, don’t cry, beg, plead or grovel for him to take you back. This behavior may s…
Patience shows self-control and maturity, two qualities men love in a woman.
It takes four to eight weeks for a man to really experience the absence of your presence and realize that he may lose you for good.
Often men fail to realize what they have until it is gone and it’s your job to make him realize what he’s lost.
Let him know from the beginning he walked out on the relationship and you have no time for a man that treats your life like a revolving door. When you put your foot down you’ll earn his respect. And when you earn a man’s respect, you’ll have him right where he belongs… wrapped around your little fin…
When you can finally let go is when you will be at peace with yourself. And this is usually the time Mr. Ex decides to get his act together. It takes four to eight weeks for a man to realize what he has lost.
If you believe confidence is something you are born with… think again. Yes, there are some women that are born with it in their blood, but most have trained themselves to be confident. Train yourself to be confident and place yourself to be in a position of confidence. If you don’t have it, find a w…