“Warm wax play. This involves dripping warm wax onto a partner's bare flesh (not the genitals) and watching the sudden flicker of pain fade into lingering pleasure. Use a specialty candle designed for this, as regular candles will burn the skin.”— Debra Macleod, huffingtonpost.comTagged: rough sex, candles, wax
“Run an ice cube over your restrained, blind-folded partner's spanked bottom for a surprising yet soothing temperature change. Slide the cube over his or her nipples and genitals and follow the icy trail with hot exhalations and licks of your tongue.”— Debra Macleod, huffingtonpost.comTagged: rough sex, blindfold, Ice Cubes
“All that leather and latex in BDSM has a purpose. It adds tactile and visual novelty by changing the way a partner's body feels and looks during sex. Change something about yourself. More vamp, less Victoria's Secret. Wear a new fragrance or a temporary tattoo.”— Debra Macleod, huffingtonpost.comTagged: rough sex, Leather, Latex, Tattoos