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This Is How You Lose Her

Finalist for the 2012 National Book AwardA Time and People Top 10 Book of 2012 Finalist for the 2012 Story Prize Chosen as a notable or best book of the year by The New York Times, Entertainment Wee

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Junot Dìaz (56)Unknown (1)

“You ask everybody you know: How long does it usually take to get over it?There are many formulas. One year for every year you dated. Two years for every year you dated. It’s just a matter of will power: The day you decide it’s over, it’s over. You never get over it.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Heartbreak, Moving On

“You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.”

— Unknown, reddit.com

Tagged: Love, Failures, Try, Worthy, deserving

“You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Love, Worthy Of Love, Proof, Feeling

“Sometimes a start is all we ever get.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Start, begin

“You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: love quotes, Unconditional Love, Fate

“You don’t want to let go, but don't want to be hurt, either. It's not a great place to be but what can I tell you?”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Misery, Complicated Life, Confusion

“She has a mouth like unswept glass – when you least expect it she cuts you.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Words are Powerful, Hurtful Words

“I was staring at you and you were staring at me and right then it was sort of like love, wasn’t it?”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Love, staring, Beginning, Waiting

“I’m like everybody else: weak, full of mistakes, but basically good.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: human, Flaws, Weak

“You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Love

“Then you look at her and smile a smile your dissembling face will remember until the day you die. Baby, you say, baby, this is part of my novel.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: Loving Her, Love, Losing Her, Rememberance, Love & Relationships

“We hurt each other too well to let it drop.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, hurt, Pain

“The half-life of love is forever.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Love, Life

“Then we fucked so that we could pretend that nothing hurtful had just happened.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Letting Go, Pain

“You don't want to let go, but don't want to be hurt, either.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Letting Go, Pain

“That's about it. In the months that follow you bend to the work, because it feels like hope, like grace—and because you know in your lying cheater's heart that sometimes a start is all we ever get.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Cope, Dealing

“She just seemed to take it, never gave anything off, not light, not heat.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Cope, Dealing

“You'd still have me, you tried to reassure her, but Paloma looked at you like the apocalypse would be preferable.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Dating, Feelings

“You must learn her. You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there.You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to. You must love her because many have…”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Dating, Feelings

“Do you remember? When the fights seemed to go on and on, and always ended with us in bed, tearing at each other like maybe that could change everything.”

— Junot Dìaz, amazon.com

Tagged: It's Over, Losing Her, Relationships, Dating, Feelings