“Of course, when I’m dating someone, I want them to value me for my ideas and accomplishments and humor or whatever. But when I’m fucking someone, I want them to value my lack of a gag reflex.”— Karley Sciortino, vogue.comTagged: Sex, How to be good at sex, feminism, Political Correctness
“I have this friend—she’s a polyamorous molecular biologist who’s into extreme BDSM (obviously). Recently, she told me that she regularly masturbates to the idea of men having sex with animals. Despite being generally prepared to hear something extreme come out of her mouth, I was still pretty shocke…”— Karley Sciortino, vogue.comTagged: Sex, How to be good at sex
“I once had a guy tell me that he doesn’t go down on women because he’s a germaphobe. Are you kidding me? How am I supposed to relax and feel good about myself after you basically called my vagina dirty? It’s so much more of a turn-on to be with someone who’s kind of gross—someone who wants to smell…”— Karley Sciortino, vogue.comTagged: Sex, How to be good at sex
“I don’t think we need to file all of our actions under ‘feminist’ or ‘not feminist’—especially since consensual sex kind of exists in a political vacuum: It’s pretty much the one place that we can just do things and move on, no angry think-piece needed.”— Karley Sciortino, vogue.comTagged: Sex, How to be good at sex, feminism, Political Correctness, Quote of the Moment