“Cheaters like to call from bathrooms because it disguises the noise from the room or the person they are actually around. If they are in a place they shouldn’t be or with someone that they shouldn’t be with, then the bathroom is the perfect should barrier to shield suspicion.”— Maxwell Billieon, essence.com
“If you don’t know your man’s friends or family after you’ve gotten serious, there may be someone else who does.”— Maxwell Billieon, essence.com
“A proud and faithful person wants to be seen with you. If your man isn’t taking you around their normal hangouts, then there could be something going on within the city limits.”— Maxwell Billieon, essence.com
“If your partner starts going to a lot of effort to keep his or her phone away from you — taking it into the bathroom, freaking out if you try to use it to check the weather, refusing to answer it while you’re in the room — then that may be a sign that something’s up.”— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, bustle.com
“People alter their voices when speaking to people with whom they are romantically involved on the phone (men tend to speak to female partners in a higher-than-normal tone of voice, while women tend to speak in a lower pitch to male partners). So if your partner starts laying on the seduction with so…”— Lara Rutherford-Morrison, bustle.com
“Even if your husband is still sleeping with you, you may pick up on subtle signs that he's not fully present: A lack of eye contact, feeling rushed to get it over with, and no intimacy afterward.”— Hannah Hickok, redbookmag.com
“Your gut doesn't lie. Let's say your husband has had an old college friend in his life for years, and up until last month, you felt totally fine about it. But now there's something about his tone when he mentions her that puts a knot in your stomach. Don't ignore that.”— Hannah Hickok, redbookmag.com
“It's inadvisable to marry someone who was cheating in an affair with you — when you're the spouse, you'll get cheated on. People who feel entitled to sex any way they can get it will always rationalize cheating and just keep doing it”— Tina B. Tessina, sheknows.com
“A partner who is suddenly not interested in sex, barring depression and other medical issues, may be getting their needs met somewhere else.”— Bethany Ramos, sheknows.com
“Guilt gifts are common when someone is getting nookie on the side. If a partner who has never thought to buy you flowers before suddenly starts bringing home roses on the regular, something may be amiss.”— Bethany Ramos, sheknows.com
“He says he wants to stay in and then your friend sees him out at a bar. He says he's going to bed and then posts a pic of himself doing shots with a bunch of girls.”— Frank Kobola, cosmopolitan.com
“Your best friend just matched with him on Tinder. He claims it's just for fun, but there are plenty of fun apps where the objective isn't to have sex with everyone.”— Frank Kobola, cosmopolitan.com
“He also asked me to completely shave off all my ‘you know where’ hair. I kept asking him why he wanted me to do that, but now I know it was because one of the women he had sex with must have had a Brazilian.”— Patti Blue Hayes, huffingtonpost.com
“If your husband has changed his protocol and passwords, it might be worth taking a closer look.”— Patti Blue Hayes, huffingtonpost.com
“Is he out several nights a week meeting with clients, vendors, agencies and people from his department or team? Have you been excluded from the social gatherings, and then learn other spouses had attended? This is a pretty good indication that he’s up to something.”— Patti Blue Hayes, huffingtonpost.com
“Most cheating men will need an untraceable way to pay for things: gifts, meals, hotels, trips, etc. Reloadable credit cards, PayPal accounts, and eBay purchases are all great ways to hide large or frequent transactions. Definitely investigate large, random transfers or cash withdrawals.”— Charles J. Orlando, yourtango.com
“Cheating men change physically. Their love handles disappear, their posture changes and their muscle tone/definition returns. It's the body's primal means of preparing for courtship — he's readying himself to attract a mate.”— Charles J. Orlando, yourtango.com
“Being angry in an instant — or being overly nice — is a red flag. There's no real reason for him to leave, so he has to create one. New activities, such as him going out all the time (but never mentions it until afterward) is a glaring example. If he was going somewhere and had no reason to hide it,…”— Charles J. Orlando, yourtango.com
“If the only photos your boyfriend posts when you're together are just of him, ‘Houston, we have a problem!’ If you go on vacations and dates with your boyfriend, but his social media presence reflects he’s either alone or out with his buddies, there’s a reason for that.”— Liz Crokin, elitedaily.com