“There's a tan line on his wedding ring finger. Believe it or not, many cheaters could get caught if the other woman searched for this simple little detail. If a guy takes off his wedding ring when he’s flirting, a tan line or an imprint is quite likely.”— Ossiana Tepfenhart, thebolde.com
“He says the wrong name. There’s no flag bigger or redder than this one.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“For some reason, he’s lasting a long time in bed, even though it’s never taken him all that long to cum in the past. Either he’s been masturbating a lot or he’s been getting some strange on the side.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“He looks different down there. Even though he normally complains about how much he hates shaving, his genitals are now completely bare. He’s taken his manscaping up a notch for seemingly no reason at all.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“He flat out said you're not the only one he's seeing. This one is a no brainer. He already told you that you are not his only woman, but for some reason, you don’t want to believe it. Sorry hun, it’s TRUE.”— Tanisha Sapp, thoughtcatalog.com
“You sadly report your best friend’s husband is cheating. Instead of sharing your dismay, he becomes defensive. ‘Well, he hasn’t been happy in that marriage,’ or ‘People have affairs. That’s life.’ Condemning others means condemning himself—and he’s not about to go there.”— Abby Rodman, thoughtcatalog.com
“Optimizing precious moments with a lover is a balancing act, so he’s counting minutes. ‘It won’t raise any red flags if I’m home by 6:00pm on the dot,’ he rationalizes. Or, ‘If I call her every day at noon, she won’t get suspicious.’ He’s drawing timelines in the sand, and being uncharacteristically…”— Abby Rodman, thoughtcatalog.com
“Picking fights all of a sudden is a classic ploy -- this way if he ever gets caught, he can blame it on you and say you two were always fighting!”— Kiri Blakeley, thestir.cafemom.com
“Did he suddenly morph from flannel and dirty boots to smart suits and shiny loafers? I'd add in wearing cologne all of a sudden, or changing the cologne he always wears to something new. Could be a sign the mistress gave him a bottle that she likes better.”— Kiri Blakeley, thestir.cafemom.com
“Talking about how "ugly" or "horrible" a certain woman is. This is one I've seen a few times -- a guy tries to cover up his attraction to a certain woman by slagging her off every chance he gets.”— Kiri Blakeley, thestir.cafemom.com
“There are only two reasons a person’s stories shouldn’t match up: they are planning you a big surprise, or they are cheating.”— Julia Austin, madamenoire.com
“The guy has odd reasons for you not to come to certain parties or get-togethers, like it will all be people from work and you’ll be bored, or it’s more of a guy’s night, or you won’t like the bar. Come on; a guy that really likes you and isn’t up to anything shady wants you around! Even if you would…”— Julia Austin, madamenoire.com
“People usually fear the most what they know lives inside of them. A crazy jealous, suspicious and controlling man usually is so because he has first-hand proof that cheating happens…via himself.”— Julia Austin, madamenoire.com
“If he consistently breaches your trust, it's establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: If he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don't let him talk his way back in.”— Rich Santos, marieclaire.com
“His friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.”— Rich Santos, marieclaire.com
“You know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him. One of my exes began talking about a guy a lot near the end of our relationship — he just always seemed to be at her social gatherings that I didn't happen to attend. Sure enough,…”— Rich Santos, marieclaire.com
“Your mate turns the table and accuses you of cheating but has no evidence.”— Raymond B. Green, today.com
“You mate acts guilty when you do something nice for him or her. You are supposed to be the person who is making life miserable and the relationship untenable. By doing something nice, you force the cheater to think about what he or she is doing.”— Raymond B. Green, today.com
“Your mate never talks to you. You live together but don't interact. He has become cold and inconsiderate of your feelings.”— Raymond B. Green, today.com