“Here's an oldie-but-a-goodie: With one hand caressing your boobs, use the other to manually stimulate your clitoris”— Kenny Thapoung, womenshealthmag.com
“When fingering a girl find her clit and lightly touch it. Only one of the three guys I've been with actually knew how to do this and it elevated fingering in my book from meh worthy to fucking fantastic.”— Anonymous, reddit.com
“Don't ignore the opening of my vag. Yes, the clitoris and G-spot are good places to go, but there's a reason I find penetration sexy.”— cpsami, reddit.com
“It's a clitoris, not a door knocker. Don't start smacking it around like you've seen your favorite porn star doing. Chances are she has built up a resistance to sensitivity that the common gal has not.”— L_Mousse, reddit.com
“Please don't press down on the clit like you're trying to defeat a Final Fantasy boss. Be gentle at first. Also, clip your fucking nails. Seriously. That shit hurts.”— TheLadyEowyn, reddit.com
“• Take the time to pleasure every inch of our body. Our vaginas, boobs and asses aren't our only erogenous zones. • Tease us...no need to rush. Take your time on each spot and pay attention to how we react to know whether you should move on or stay there a while longer. • Don't rush straight for the…”— Maxxters, reddit.com
“Women can and frequently do have orgasms without vaginal entry or penetration. In fact, it's more likely for most women to have orgasms without penetrative or vaginal sexual activities than it is for them to reach orgasm through vaginal entry or penetration alone.”— Heather Corinna, scarleteen.com
“You can also try using your thumb and forefinger to almost mimic the motion of manual stimulation of a penis, though many people find this to be tiring and slightly awkward, depending on the size and location of your clitoris.”— Katy Thorn, lelo.com
“If you typically stroke yourself in a diagonal pattern—moving your fingers over your clitoris from side to side—try varying your stroke technique by caressing it using an up and down motion instead. Another option: Use one finger to trace circles around your clitoris without touching it directly.”— Marie Gartee, shape.com
“If you don’t know where your clitoris is, it’s that small nub of skin above your vagina and often concealed under small folds of skin where your labia meets. Your clit is that little, very sensitive tissue that gets a little engorged when you get aroused. When you masturbate, remember to tease and s…”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Just lie on your stomach with your hand firmly between your legs, and stimulate your clitoris and pubic mound by grinding your legs together and moving your hips up and down. And don't worry if you have roommates: The pillow is right there to muffle any sound you might make.”— Anna Borges, womenshealthmag.com
“Find a seated position that is comfortable and allows you access between your legs, and use your finger to "draw" a circle around your clitoris. Start slow, and depending on your speed and reaction, increase speed and pressure. If the "O" shape isn't doing it for you, try tracing the letters of the…”— Anna Borges, womenshealthmag.com
“This is by far the simplest technique, and it's all in the flick of a finger. To get set up, you need to lie down on your back and get comfortable. You're going masturbate using only one finger. Rather than just touching and rubbing yourself, make only the slightest amount of contact with your genit…”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Lying on your stomach, you can grind your clit against a vibrator or pillow while your hands roam elsewhere. You can also strap a dildo to a chair or suction it to a wall, and thrust onto it while you use your hands to play with your clitoris. Whichever way you do it, the more erogenous zones you en…”— Carlyle Jansen, thefrisky.com
“Use one finger to run circles around your clitoris, without touching it directly.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“In general, most women masturbate by stimulating their clitorises. Research has found that women are most likely to reach orgasm by stroking diagonally across the clitoris. Women usually need a fair amount of time to warm up, and require repetitive, consistent stimulation to climax.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“To increase his excitement and visual stimulation—and intensify clitoral and G-spot stimulation for you—move on an oval track rather than straight up and down. Imagine you're circumscribing an oval with your body, with the downstroke at one end of the oval, the upstroke at the other. Lean forward sl…”— Susan Crain Bakos, redbookmag.com
“The key is to breathe in through your mouth and out through your nose. If you can learn circular breathing (something musicians who play instruments that require breath know), you can go down on a girl for hours without having to come up for air. It’s actually reverse circular breathing. To make sur…”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.com