“Clitorises can vary greatly between women. Some are quite big, others tiny. But they’ll always be in the same place so it’s just a matter of knowing where to look. As it becomes more stimulated, it will swell and become more prominent. With the hand you wrapped around her leg and placed on her stoma…”— Eli Walton, lovepanky.com
“Try swirling your tongue around her clitoris in small circles, clockwise and then counter-clockwise. You’ll find the right spot, guaranteed.”— Chrystal Bougon, yourtango.com
“My clitoris is a sensitive creature. Please do not tongue-punch her as if you’re trying to retrieve a very stubborn sprinkle from a tub of molasses.”— Tatiana Pérez, thoughtcatalog.com
“You might occasionally want to gently suck her clitoris, as the suction can give a different sensation. Some women will like this, some won’t. And even a girl that likes it one day may not the next day.”— Karen Martinez, risingmaster.com
“A surprising number of people don’t know this – but the clit isn’t just a little button floating in the pussy. The button is connected to a shaft – much like the penis. It’s incredibly stimulating to have a finger on each side of the shaft rubbing up and down – just as you would do to a penis. (Up a…”— Alisa Bowman, projecthappilyeverafter.com
“A great way to get a sense of what she likes is to start tracing your tongue in a wide circle around her clitoris, without touching it. Slowly work your way closer to the clit, then eventually do circles on top of the clit. See what she responds to, or ask her where she likes it best.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com