Never act like someone else.
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The easiest way to build sexual tension is through teasing your guy, play-fighting and generally having fun, all the while making sure he knows you have fun.
Slow down and accentuate your movements. It's surprisingly simple and easy to do, yet it will dramatically improve your sex appeal.
Delaying gratification makes your man fantasize about you more. When you tease him with sexy text messages or the promise of sex, his imagination runs wild.
The funny thing about men is that telling them less about your life makes them long for you more. So as much as you might want to share the minutiae of your bitchy workplace or your take on the latest Grey's Anatomy plot twist, hold back.
As lovey-dovey as pet names make him feel, they still don't compare to the electrifying rush your man gets when his name crosses your lips.
What are some things you both like a lot? Find out what that is. Attraction isn’t just physical — it’s intellectual, too.
Remember that if you don’t flirt with your person right away, somebody else will gladly swoop in and flirt their ass off.
Whatever you do, do NOT do the I’m-ignoring-you-totally-nope-I-don’t-even-see-you, because they won’t have a clue that you do that out of nervousness/anxiety and they will actually think you HATE them.
Hold yourself tall and proud. A girl who sits and stands naturally upright exudes confidence. Don’t hunch your shoulders because it gives the mental impression of you cowering away. You want you body to appear open and inviting.
Lean your body in towards him when you are talking. You don’t have to be constantly leaning in as if you are hard of hearing, but if you lean in every now and then it will feel like you want to share something only with him which will create a sense of intimacy.
If you tie your hair up, lifting your arms to do so will draw his attention naturally to your chest without having to wear low cut tops with your breasts hanging out or push-up bras.
The shoulder, elbow, and forearm are considered the safest areas to touch a stranger. A brief, well-timed knee touch can also work, especially for stories where you’re at the ‘you won’t believe what happened next’ part. And never underestimate the power of the high-five.
If you see him at a night club or party, go up and ask him to dance. If he seems willing but shy, pull him onto the dance floor!
Men won’t approach you if they think you’re inaccessible. Don’t stay within a circle of your friends when you’re out at the club and try your best to appear approachable.
Be animated with your hands, body and face. This will also make you seem more energetic and healthy – both attractive qualities.
Give them an unusual compliment. Say something like ‘you have a very confident-sounding voice,’ or ‘you seem like someone who knows how to get the best out of people,’ or ‘you have a delightfully offbeat personality.’ Leave them with a compliment that will stick with them and make you unique.
Always approach from the front. Nobody likes being snuck up on by a stranger.
The trick to flirtatious eye contact is to maintain your gaze longer than usual. If you spot someone across the way, try to meet their gaze, hold it for a few seconds, and look away.
Swing your hips. Men love this. The way you walk will make or break your chances with a guy.