“Once on top, hover over his penis so that your vagina is just barely enveloping his penis. Leaning forward, kiss him slowly and seductively as you very, very slowly lower your vagina down the shaft of his penis. See how long you can take to reach the base…”— Debby Herbenick, mysexprofessor.com
“When you want to get on top, make him lie down on his back and stroke him all over. He’ll enjoy the attention because he really doesn’t have to do much here. Blow him or kiss him all around his member and turn him on. And once he’s fully ready, penetrate him. Take your time before sitting on him or…”— Kayla Kissinger, lovepanky.com
“Give him a sensual massage. There’s nothing like a naked, oily rubdown to get you in the mood. Put a large towel down on the bed and have your partner lie on his stomach. Using scented massage oil, rub his back, shoulders, arms, neck, and head with your hands.”— Sabrina Rogers-Anderson, urbanette.com
“My ex liked it both ways. It was either I give her a lot of foreplay (slow movements with the tips of my fingers around her body, or my tongue moving around her very slowly, moving all around lightly), then give her oral, then get into the actual sex, she loved it a whole lot. It got her into it big…”— JathTyki, reddit.com
“Oral sex is amazing, but I usually have to give out the same pointers. 1: It's not a sandwich; think of it more like an ice cream. 2: It is much easier for me to cum if I am confident that he is not bored and is prepared to go on as long as necessary. Paranoia about elusive orgasms only makes them m…”— kittybot, reddit.com
“~Sex is mental before physical—turning us into your mothers during non-sexual moments really shuts off the sexual energy ability in the bedroom later on. ~No foreplay? No 'good' sex. Prime, prime, prime rule. ~Communicate. Clearly and often. Good talking = good sexing. ~Create a safe environment for…”— Pannanana, reddit.com
“FOREPLAY. My husband is the best at this. By the time he's done I'm pulling him on top of me and begging for sex. This is particularly impressive since he hates oral, so he accomplishes this all with his hands. Also setting a mood is quintessential. When things feel romantic, we feel romantic. For w…”— katkinsk, reddit.com
“• Kissing plays a very important part to us. Lack of kissing can possibly be a turn off. • Foreplay, it's important. We love to be touched!! Tease us, kiss us, rub our nipples, gently touch our breasts. The buildup is quite amazing! Shoving your cock instantly inside of us without the foreplay can b…”— artificialsweetner, reddit.com
“He skimps on foreplay. You've gone down on this guy how many times? And he never repays the favor? Well—it sounds like he's getting screwed, and you're getting screwed over.”— Clint Carter, womenshealthmag.com
“Ladies, grab your boyfriend’s dick and use that bad sucker to rub your clit. It’s fantastic foreplay for both of you. You get to use his penis as your own personal sex toy while taking control, and he gets to watch you squirm.”— Gigi Engle, elitedaily.com
“It may take a while for your lover to feel comfortable with you watching him masturbate, but luckily it seems most men find this quite a turn-on. My partner and I began slowly, him masturbating by my side after I had reached orgasm during sex. If you don’t feel comfortable with this, he can bring hi…”— Kat Williams, thefrisky.com
“To suck on a man’s thumb evokes sucking on something else, and can help him connect his mind and body during lovemaking. Start off foreplay by gazing into his eyes as you kiss his hands, and then suck on his thumb as a promise for what’s to come.”— Mark Michaels, shape.com
“Sexting, if you haven't done it yet, is, in one word, fantastic. It's basically the technological version of foreplay, and a perfect way to get both you and your partner in the mood.”— Amanda Chatel, bustle.com
“You know how awesome sex feels when your guy takes his time to really rev you up beforehand? Well, experts say foreplay is just as important to maxing out his pleasure, too, since a slow mental build-up will intensify his arousal by megawatts. Jumpstart his libido with a few sensual kisses, then dra…”— Kelly Thore, cosmopolitan.com
“If you want to turn the kiss into something more, then press your body up against hers, so she can feel your boner. That should make your intentions pretty clear. Then she can decide whether she wants to take things a step further or continue the make-out session.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Rather than going straight to massaging your partner's tongue with yours, it's nice to have a little build-up. Start by tilting your head to the side just a little bit so that your noses are not in the way. Then, gently squeeze your partner's upper lip between your lips for a few seconds, and then d…”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Use your hands. Delicately. My girlfriend sometimes lays her hand flat on the side of my face when she kisses me. I like that. Or she spreads her fingers on the back of my neck. Very nice. Or locks her hands in mine.”— Tom Chiarella, esquire.com
“During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the s…”— Debby Herbenick, menshealth.com
“You can tell how excited a girl is by putting your finger down there. Is she wet? She should be dripping by now... and if she isn’t, keep teasing, boys.”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.com
“The foreplay we want is probably four times longer than you think. Quick suggestions: necking, kissing, flesh grabbing, kneading ass cheeks (especially when it makes our outer lips part), kissing ears, ear nibbling, breast play, nipple play, running hands over back of calves and behind knees, showin…”— Bianca Bui, thoughtcatalog.com