“Stop being so damn insecure. Seriously. You are not fat. You are beautiful. Your toes and finger nails don't have to match color.”— Aly Walansky, yourtango.com
“Have sex with her using a strap-on from behind, and reach forward to hold her . Tugging on her hair in this position also adds a kinky edge.”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.uk
“Double-enders are proof that there is a god. One end in you, one in her – rock 'n' roll!”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.uk
“Spooning involves one partner lying behind the other and holding them. Reaching to finger, caress breasts or enter with a toy from behind are then all on the menu.”— Charlotte Dingle, cosmopolitan.co.uk
“As you eat your partner, use one hand to please her. You can stimulate her clitoris with your tongue as you finger her with one or two *or more* fingers, or you can alternate, penetrating her with your tongue as you gently rub her clitoris with your thumb.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“You or your partner will kneel on the bed or on the floor, with her butt up in the air and her chest on the floor, opening up her crotch to you. You then finger her as you kneel next to her, deeply thrusting your fingers into her wide-open vagina.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Stroke her all over her body, from her face to her breasts, to her butt, and to her thighs. You can take your time and kiss each other as you explore each other’s bodies.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Lie down together in a 69 position, kissing each other’s breasts. You can rub your breasts against each other and mimic each other’s actions. This is a perfect technique to intensify your passions before you move on to other positions.”— Tiffany Grace Reyes, lovepanky.com
“Having (essentially) a rod like thing thrust in and out of you is good, don’t get me wrong, but usually the curl of a perfectly placed finger is much, much better, as you probably know or can imagine.”— Kate Bailey, thoughtcatalog.com
“Whether it’s a dildo, vibrator, or fingers, lesbian sex can also include the back door.”— Noah Michelson, huffingtonpost.com
“Not all queer women want to have sex with men, but that doesn’t mean we don’t like to give or receive blow jobs. Strap-ons can lend themselves to exciting power exchanges between women, and can be empowering because they allow us to take ownership over heterosexual or gay sex acts.”— Noah Michelson, huffingtonpost.com
“Too many porn films seem to have given the people the idea what we do little more than brush each other’s hair and cuddle. But queer women fuck. We have the hot, sweaty, nasty, delicious sex that has nothing to do with billowing curtains and satin sheets.”— Noah Michelson, huffingtonpost.com
“Don’t limit yourself to the common erogenous zones on the female body. There are so many more pleasure-oozing areas than just her clit and neck.”— Giulia Simolo, thebolde.com
“Forget thinking that in lesbian sex one woman is the dominant, or male partner, and the other plays the female role. The truth is that it’s all about taking turns to satisfy each other.”— Giulia Simolo, thebolde.com
“Repeat after me: intercourse is not always the main event of sex. Remember that most women don’t even orgasm via penetration alone.”— Giulia Simolo, thebolde.com
“In a nutshell, scissoring is when you rub vulva up against vulva. Yes, it can be tricky. I’ve been kicked in the head a few times in the act.”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.com
“To be honest, you could ask six different lesbians what lesbian sex is and get six different answers. My friend Jackie says penetration (fingers or dildo). Sally told me via text message that it’s when her girlfriend sits on her face. Lisa wisely said, ‘You’ll know when you have it.’ I say it’s anyt…”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.com
“We tend to cut our nails short and keep them that way. Though if you’re a fashion femme (like myself) and your partner doesn’t like you to penetrate her with your fingers, you can keep them long and glam. You just have to make sure you’re using the outside of your finger when stimulating your partne…”— Zara Barrie, elitedaily.com
“Scissoring is when the partners come together, one on top, with their legs splayed (you know, like scissors) in order to align their genitals for the best possible contact to stimulate them using friction. I made it just sound as clinical AF but it is actually intensely hot.”— Rebecca Jane Stokes, yourtango.com